Do you cum EVERY time?

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by calgirl, May 25, 2012.

  1. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Maybe not when you're interrupted by something. But how about if you get started and then it is taking too long? Or you can't get yourself there? Does that bug you? Are you ok with just playing with yourself? The orgasm is what I WANT ! There's been maybe a few times I didn't make it. For some reason, I wasn't getting the right spot, or was mentally distracted. Usually I start planning when I can try again. If all else fails, porn will get me there.
     
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    I just watch a Czechoslovakian group sex porn. Spanked my monkey for a little while but didnt cum. I just dont feel like having an orgasm, or cumming at this time.. Feels good anyways..
     
  3. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    I can be extremely patient. :D
     
  4. stokv

    stokv Member

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    I often just start even if I know I will not cum, I just like playing with my self, it's take really long, in fact I could fininsh any moment but I feel the really pleasure is in the whole procedure not only on the end, so I keep it longer and longer... and I do it also on sex, often I just give a pleasure to my partner and later I stop, and finish the next day giving one more pleasure to may partner and a really big load....
     
  5. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    I thought that was the point
     
  6. Jack_Straw2208

    Jack_Straw2208 Senior Member

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    every time, 3-6 times.
     
  7. Rabbit420

    Rabbit420 Member

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    Yes I do cum every time. I won't masturbate unless I know I have enough time to edge for a couple hours and then subsequently have a rousing orgasm.
     
  8. DMFP

    DMFP Member

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    I admire you - I would not be able to edge for that long - would seem like torture after about 20 minutes! :)
     
  9. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    I don't always require an orgasm, no. I recently went 2 months without ejaculating, but that was because of a complex situation I was in at the time. I won't go into that. I still masturbated, though. I just didn't orgasm.
     
  10. Rabbit420

    Rabbit420 Member

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    Why thank you. My longest edging session lasted about 12 hours:sunny: I have to admit that I had one earthshaking, fall out of my chair orgasm after that stretch:devil::)
     
  11. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    i take a long time to.
     
  12. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    that's why you only last 45 seconds in a blowjob ;) an orgasm can actually be quite against the point of great sex!

    My answer is definitely not. I've actually been edging for so long that I have to retrain myself a bit on how to have an orgasm from sex. It didn't take too long, and now I feel i'm at a wonderful spot where I can essentially choose when to cum.

    I will occassionally stop sex after my gf has cum once or twice and will leave it at that, save my own for later :)

    anticipation is key

    edit: just saw this was in the masturbation section lol.
     
  13. Built4Sex

    Built4Sex Guest

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    I can help ya get there if ya' need it. Lol
     
  14. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    I always want to cum. Always! I had phone sex the other night and couldn't though. A few times in the tub I haven't been able to make it. Sometimes it's taken up to 45 minutes. I love orgasms though. I don't think I would ever just want to play with myself.
     
  15. Built4Sex

    Built4Sex Guest

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    I always want to cum too. I think I might be a sex addict. Who says we can't give it a try though? o_O
     
  16. BTS

    BTS Member

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    me not
     
  17. kairilove

    kairilove Member

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    Never had that problem.... I guess I have good mental control but I can get the big O pretty much any time and as fast or slowly as I feel like. It would suck to get stuck trying and never make it :(
     
  18. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    I like to masturbate at least once a day as part of my daily routine, and whenever I do so I do it with the goal of reaching an orgasm, and most of the time I have no problems in doing so.

    However, I am also epileptic, and as such am subject to monthly seizures.
    For the following week - 10 days after one of these seizures, recovery includes primarily painfully strained muscles & excessive tiredness.

    Another side effect of this recovery period is a state of impotency, when not only can maintaining an erection be a problem in itself, but reaching a climax can be extremely difficult or even impossible to manage, and even when an orgasm is eventually achieved, the amount of energy expended in doing so can make me wonder if it was really worth the effort.

    The main problem here is that although I may feel psychologically horny with an intense desire to orgasm in order to ease the sexual frustration, the physical side of things during this recovery period can be an entirely different matter.
     

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