first of all sorry about my english as i am not native speaker i am st8, but i always dreamed about giving another guy a BJ finally i been chating, with one guy for few weeks, and we agreed to meet, and the big night is tomorrow. i have never done this before. i am very afraid but in the same time very exited, as my dram of having a cock in my mouth is coming true he's cock is about 7,5 inches and i have a few questions how should i start? is there any way that i can prepare before? what to avoid? and should i let him to come in my mouth? i would be very thankful if you could advise me with anything? thank you
#1 Relax. You are a newbie, and the guy getting a bj should know that. If he wants a star performance, he may want to look for a very experienced sucker. #2 Take it slow, nice and easy. Even the best technique is only robotic if there is no enthusiasm at play. #3 Watch your teeth, and work hard towards avoiding the nasty dick scraping #4 Do not overuse your hands. A BJ does NOT equal a HJ. #5 Try to keep occasional eye contact. A dude will love a sense of personal attention. If you watch him carefully, you'll soon learn what works for him best. #6 Do not dive in for the cock trying to deep-throat. This requires some skill. Pleasing as it may be, you want to be careful with that. #7 Take an occasional break. You'll need it, and the other dude needs it, too. Avoid any sense of urgency. You are not racing towards orgasm but enjoying the way... #8 Quite a few guys cannot reach orgasm just because someone blows them. Remember that this is a fact of life. A BJ can be a great success even if a dude does not perform like a porn actor. #9 Since you really do not know that guy, consider a facial as a great alternative to swallowing for the starters. BJ is not likely to give you a very nasty bug but you want to exercise the due caution. It also makes sense to leave something for the next time, too. KD
thank you so much for your advise. i will let you know how it did go tomorrow!!! do you do that on regular basis?
Nope. Not at all. I am a top, and enjoy being sucked. So, I know what a sucker dude needs to do to make me happy. I also know what reasonable expectations are. Thanks for keeping us posted... KD
QUOTE=KewlDewd66;7263903]Nope. Not at all. I am a top, and enjoy being sucked. So, I know what a sucker dude needs to do to make me happy. I also know what reasonable expectations are. Thanks for keeping us posted... Well, it happened!!!!!!!! and it was amazing i was a bit afraid at the beginning, but it went well. we met at his place then we had drinks, he asked me to go down on my knees, and he pulled his cock out!!!! i was thinking "how i am gonna fit that big thing in my mouth" as when it was in-front of my face it looked really huge!!! bet then i opened my mouth and i took it in it was really amazing to feel when it was growing and getting hard inside my mouth, but i have done a good job with my tongue...and i was all the time caressing the head, i was really gentle as you told me, and i was very carful with my teeth. then i went down on his balls (for me it was the best thing) i loved it he asked me as well to perform a deep-throat, but i couldn't do that... well i felt exactly when he was coming he he asked me if he can do it inside, bur i quickly pulled his cock out, and he unloaded at my face. it was a great filling, it was so worm. and i even tasted a bit. i didn't really liked the taste. he asked me if we can do it on regular basis? i said yes I REALLY REALLY ENJOYED MY FIRST TIME, AND I REALY WANT TO RTY MORE!! thank you for all the advises you really helped me!! and who knows maybe i can say thank you someday, in a special way...:0
Well, it happened!!!!!!!! and it was amazing i was a bit afraid at the beginning, but it went well. we met at his place then we had drinks, he asked me to go down on my knees, and he pulled his cock out!!!! i was thinking "how i am gonna fit that big thing in my mouth" as when it was in-front of my face it looked really huge!!! bet then i opened my mouth and i took it in it was really amazing to feel when it was growing and getting hard inside my mouth, but i have done a good job with my tongue...and i was all the time caressing the head, i was really gentle as you told me, and i was very carful with my teeth. then i went down on his balls (for me it was the best thing) i loved it he asked me as well to perform a deep-throat, but i couldn't do that... well i felt exactly when he was coming he he asked me if he can do it inside, bur i quickly pulled his cock out, and he unloaded at my face. it was a great filling, it was so worm. and i even tasted a bit. i didn't really liked the taste. he asked me if we can do it on regular basis? i said yes I REALLY REALLY ENJOYED MY FIRST TIME, AND I REALY WANT TO RTY MORE!! thank you for all the advises you really helped me!! and who knows maybe i can say thank you someday, in a special way...:0
The facial was cool but you need to swallow your reward!At least that was what my stepfather told me when he started my training on being a great cocksucker.
Thanks for the hott update. See, you can do a lot even though it was your first time. Do not feel any pressure to swallow his cum. This is a great bonus but every smart dude will be grateful for a good BJ with or without the swallowing bit. You go there if and when you are comfortable with it. Deep throating requires some practice. You want to take it easy. Gagging on a dude's bone may be an ego trip for the guy who is getting sucked but it may be a turn off for you. If you do the things right by reading his speed towards orgasm, you are more than good enough to go. Do not develop into a guy who knows how to deep-throat but forgets all the other stuff: Rhythm, endurance, eye contact, small expressions of joy while doing it. KD
Hey i am almost 18 and how would you start. I mean i really get an urge to suck cock and fuck it to but i am attracted to chicks but want some cock how would you start?