Who brings the condom, girl or boy? Does this depend on sexual culture? I'll be on my third date and am wondering how to proceeed.. Is it Ok to proceed without condom? Will it be awkward not having a condom with me?
Man needs to get. You know what fits. If youre ok with stds and accidental pregnancy then go without. Pretty dumb if you do. Will definitely kill the mood if you have to go scrambling for a condom...
I don`t think anybody knows. If you want to skip the issue right off, hump your same sex. It`s safer. No games, no pregnancy, no alimony.
Ok when I was in the dating scene I brought condoms with me. My body as well, he wanted some and didn't have well guess what I did and is he wouldn't wear, he got none!
You don't mind getting an incurable STD from another guy? If a guy wants to get laid, he brings a condom. It's not like they are expensive.
Try reading my post again. If you can`t get what I`m saying, I`m not so sure I`d be interested in explaining it. Be well.
The dude's suppose to bring them, but it doesnt hurt if the females brings extra. Keep a pack of lube wit you also.
Only dudes that are 'supposed' to do anything whatsoever are helpless doormats who ejaculate prematurely, and will grow old to be sorry, balding, pussy-whips, with a gut; unable to get it up, paying alimony and being yelled at, and nagged by some fattie; and in the privacy of potty time, fantasize about blonde bombshells with fake breasts, flat tummies, and bleached hair, who take it up the ass and swallow their cum, but will go to their graves without ever fucking any of `em. You don`t get to tell me what to do. No, no. That`s not how it works. You don`t get to set the conditions unilaterally. You want to get laid too? You bring your own condom. Otherwise, I`ll dump you for a chick who does. If they are so cheap, why don`t you buy them yourself? The hypocrisy of it! lol. This ain`t Cinderella, and having a hole between your legs does not entitle you to anything. UNLESS, you want me to be your superior and make decisions in your behalf on other areas also. You want the benefits of equality, then you`ll bear the responsibilities as well. There are widely available female condoms on the market.
Lolx.. I know that I should have one for backup but I meant if I should wait for her or I use mine. I wonder rules are different geographically.
Cherea has a point on the principle of gender equality...but regardless for the first few dates, the guy should bring it on the logical basis of he knows what fits. Perhaps the man or women is allergic to latex, so I don't read into who brings the condoms defining the entire relationship dynamics...that's a bit of a slippery slope fallacy imho.
Both parties. Irresponsible without one. I would take three with me where ever I went if I were planning on expecting sex ^^
I don't see where the gender equality issue comes about in this discussion. If a guy is going on a date, and he wants to have sex, and he wants to use protection, then it's perfectly logical for him to bring a condom. He has no way of knowing whether or not the girl also wants to have sex, or is prepared, so the most logical thing to do is to be prepared himself. That would provide for the greatest possibility of this guy getting laid, and I think that's what really matters to most of us. If we're talking about a couple who have sex regularly, then I could see some issue arising with a dispute over who buys the condoms. IMO guys should just carry a condom around with them all the time. You never want to rule out the possibility of getting laid.
usually a male, and if the partner is allergic she can have a condom of different szies made without latex, so all works out, but let the guy whip it out, then say (if allergic to latex) otherwise, usually guys bring condoms, and I have them on me at ALL times because you never know what will happen.. So be prepared, and makes you less of a whore looking person if it's on your person all the time, rather than when going on dates, almost insinuating sex will happen, which can be intimidating. But goodluck, it's choice for the people, not a universal system, but I bring my condoms with me. Always make sure to have spares in the car, and a back up in your pocket or whererver safe is safest.
