rofl @ circle convo's. The concern for feelings part is dead on. I think it's just that most men are too pussy to just say that to the woman... so they endure the abuse because they think they need to be "tough." When in fact their inability to act is actually what is weak about them...
i'm not saying to not act or to just put up with it by any means. if she is CONSTANTLY going on about her past then you either need to have a serious conversation about it or get rid of her if it is THAT big of a deal.
you gotta surf the wave boi.. she says she fucked in the uniform.. tell her u better fuck her w/o the uniform and then use the uniform to clean her after your done!
I would say most men DON'T want to know details about the sexual past of a woman they're with. My wife, whom I love dearly was pretty inexperienced sexually when I met her (she claimed to have had sex a total of 12 times with 6 different partners, had never had an orgasm,etc.) Nevertheless somehow it slipped out when we were first together that she lost her virginity to a black man whose penis was so large it 'split the sides of her mouth' when she tried to suck it. Sixteen years together and I still hate to think about it. I may be more sensitive about these issues than many other men because I was never any woman's 'first', so to me each of the women that I fell in love with have a memory locked away of their first time which does not include me and to which I cannot relate. Also when my penis is inside a woman's vagina I hope she is not secretly thinking of another cock from her past that filled her up more. I think the best thing a man can do is to have a convo with a woman once it becomes serious that the past is the past and to never bring up anything about previous sexual activities, I wish I had.