I'm a male in my early 20's. The past couple of years my sex drive started to go down and now it is really low. I'd say if 10 is the average 21 year olds libido i'm probably about a 3 - 4. It's obviously a psychological thing, i used to have a high sex drive in my mid teens but i wasn't really getting any so I kind of suppressed it and now it won't come back. The past couple times i've had sex i started off with an erection then just get a semi and my sex drive goes. At one point i thought i might be asexual but it's just a low sex drive. I rarely masturbate now and only if i'm bored and there's nothing else to do and i've not had a rock hard erection for a while. I tried 'Horny goat weed' that didn't really do anything apart from the first few days my penis was bigger it just increased blood flow really 'Tribulus terrestris' - didn't do anything apart from the first couple days i felt it increased my motivation. 'Muira puma' - worked ok but didn't increase sex drive enough and makes you too hyperactive. 'Damiana leaves' - Worked great for the first couple weeks and then stopped working. To be honest i don't really know what advice i'm asking for because i feel like i've tried most stuff. The only way i see myself overcoming this is by overcoming some psychological issue that i'm not aware of or taking something that will increase my sex drive and the effects won't wear off. there must be some kind of pill or medication that increases sex drive but i do admit i think it's mainly psychological.
Truthfully I've never had a girlfriend but just to clear something up, even though i have never had one i don't consider myself desperate and i've had chances to get into relationships recently they just weren't really my type and i just don't feel ready for a relationship right now. I think iv'e had problems with emotional detachment disorder (if your not sure what it is look it up). I don't really feel that much of a connection with my parents, i'm not sure if that has anything to do with it. I do think i have confidence issues though, lots of women are interested in me so i don't have a problem attracting them but i think i have confidence issues with myself that have nothing to do with women.
Action concurs fear and the timing is never right, Have a solid foundation and you will be right, The next girl that you think is interested in you, Just say to your self fuck it, Live the moment and be free, Take things slow if you like but don't let them pass you buy, Don't force anything just be there and see how you like it, Some times the imperfections make the perfection.
