Hi, it's been nearly 6 months since I last had sex and tonight may be the night... But wtf, now I'm scared shitless?? Thanks nerves! I met this guy for a date a few weeks ago, and we have arranged to go out again. Nothing happened but a kiss last time, but this time he's suggesting sex will happen. I do wanna fuck him, my goodness do I wanna fuck him. He's sexy as! Though I fear I may not be up to his standards... He says he's an ass man, and even though I have been told many times my back end is quite nice, I got psoriasis on it randomly in October and it's left a few dark scars on the cheeks. So annoying. I'm kind of paranoid about them now. Noones seen my ass in ages, so I dunno how he's gonna react. And 2, i got a wax a few days ago and the beautician said I have a slight rash down-under from ingrown hairs. Joy. I don't get why my body is backfiring now? It's always daunting shagging someone new, but this just adds to it. What should I do? Guys, would you feel grossed out by a lot of ingrown hairs, scars or whatever? Girls do you get that kind of stuff and does it affect how you feel in the bedroom? Any replies would be most appreciated. Gratzee!
Don't Give All That Stuff A Second Thought, Just Turn The Lighting Down To A Nice Soft Level, Then Makeout Like A Pair Of Rabbits On Heat.... Good Luck, And I Hope He Bonks Your Brains Out.... Cheers Glen.
Seriously, I'm surprised you lot ever get layed at all. Always way too much emphasis on your looks, when they are always more worried about protecting their credit card balance, lasting longer than 2 minutes or is this chic already planning the wedding day before main course arrives
First of all, if you`re worrying about all this shit, you must be a totally sick bombshell lolita. Stop reverse flattering yourself. The choice among men will pick that up. Secondly, fuck moar. That`s what happens when you force yourself to go six months without dick. But, maybe you`re into that denial shit. Most breeders are, to some extent. Last but not least, keep how it went down to yourself. I`m sure no one here is interested.
Did I just hear (see) right, did you use the term breeders? Is there some kind of announcement you need to make?
Where have you been? I made it a long time ago, Vayjay. I'm sure you won`t mind me calling you that. It`s funny you should say that precisely the morning after I fucked my first 'nice' girl in 3 years, if you know what I mean... Must be some kind of defensiveness I`m giving off. :biggrin: I`m still freaked out by her lack of experience. I could hardly get it up. And, I`ve gotten it up under much worse circumstances. But there, not a rally.
OK. back on track before we hijack this thread. Bitter, what Cherea said might have sounded nasty, and maybe he's just in a bad mood tonight, but he does have a point, it is really freakin annoyin, for all those involved, not just the ones seeking nookie. And if it turns out thats what happens, that you dont get laid over concerns about a few ingrown hairs, something thats not even remotely close to even being considered by this guy. Then its a circular argument, its all those insecurities that will do it in the end, dont get yours cos you are freakin out. But to everyone else it will just sound like you are fishing for attention "Oh, no sweetie your arse is like a succulent pear" or the chance for a bit of male bashing with your friends "Oh, he didnt just cos of a bad bikini wax, pffft, Men are such pigs"
What's gotten into you? lol I'm not reverse flattering myself! There's lots of things that I'm insecure about, as every girl is. It's mainly the scars that concern me. I know how shallow men can be, I just don't want to put him off. And I haven't forced myself to go 6 months without it. You've seen my other thread when I've been trying to get other other men. But I've had no luck.
Actually, I'm glad Cherea was so harsh... He makes a very good point. I guess it's silly fretting over such a small thing... :/
I`m just (probably) envious of the guy who`s going to fuck you. That, and I`m black and lived in New York City for 15 years. That`ll throw your PC out the window in a heart beat!
And if successful have your Ipod in the bedroom with a bit of Elvis ready to go Glorrry glorrry Hallleluuuuuuuheuuujah
Relax and be confident. A lot of people, most of them, nearly everyone, forgets that movement and words can make someone appear very attractive indeed.
