So basically, used to masturbate a LOT, then I got a boyfriend, we had sex all the time for 3 years, broke up last year, started masturbating again but then I had sex with another man about 2 months ago and ever since then haven't been able to finish as easy as I could before, not that it was always a breeze, but now when I masturbate I get sore because of how long I've been going, and/or it doesn't feel so great. Any ideas?
What's your mental stress level in your life now, as opposed to back then when you had an easier time climaxing? It could be psychological, I'm gonna go on a hunch and say that's what's causing it since we know your physiology allows you to orgasm. Another possibility is hormone fluctuations. What's your diet like?
My stress level was higher when this started, I got that far, but now my stress level is way down so I don't know if that's really it or not. My diet has been the same for about 8 months, crappy ramen and PB&J (Poor college student). And I don't smoke or do any drugs. I don't think I'm sick, but it could be something I don't know about, obviously. Thanks for the help!
I'm a guy but girl-related stress has caused a frustrating situation in my case. It's a really long story, but I haven't orgasmed in close to 2 months now. Every time I get close to a climax, I in a way get scared of what might await me once I get there. Although, I DO believe I'm starting to recover from this. I don't know exactly what's causing your situation, but maybe you're linking your orgasms to all the wonderful sensations you and your ex shared. Now that you're not with him, stress experienced at the subconscious level just might have manifested itself in the form of the difficulty orgasming. It's similar to that in my case. Perhaps having sex with this other fellow kind of triggered the whole thing in you. Definitely a wild guess at this point, but I don't think it's entirely all that far fetched... What do you think? At any rate, I wish you all the best with your situation.
Oh man don't eat the ramen, i am a college student and it's a quick meal but that stuff get's stuck in your organs for years. PB&J get's my approval, as long as it's grape jelly :2thumbsup:
A student in my town actually fucking died after eating Ramen exclusively for several months. Maybe too much sodium? Ask Santa for a Hitachi Magic Wand.
It very well could be related to my ex. Me and him were engaged, had lots of emotional ties, and then he cheated and it did not end well, so it makes a lot of sense. But I'm almost completely over him so I hope it just goes away. As for the diet, ew, grape jelly sucks, strawberry is where it's at. And yes, if you exclusively eat ramen it is HORRIBLE for you... Has like 68% sodium in one pack, so three times a day? Umm yeah, heart attack lol. I eat it maybe once a day, but not so much lately, just once this past week. PB&J is making me fat. Ugh. lol
This is waay away from the stress thing. I have issues as well. You are not alone lol! Try clearing your head and doing some naughty daydreaming before you ever get started-helps me alot
I'm also pretty sure having a high sodium diet (like most americans) doesn't help with one's sex life. Try drinking more water, and eat more fruits and veggies. (Remember to use produce soap to wash off any pesticides and stuff off stuff before you eat them, you don't want to be ingesting those chemicals).
