A controversial topic, adult sex with children

To many people, yes, they are. Both in good ways and bad.

Children who fall victim of sexual abuse, and violent abuse, most often deal with the same type of problems throughout life as a result.

 

I wonder if this may have something to do with warding off mating between parent and child. Do parents and children producing offspring produce deformed offspring?

 

@GoofyGooberz:

First of all I would like to say I appreciate that you explained your view and you didn't speak judgments of my personally.

I do have a few questions.

Why is that the right way? Why is it relevant that it is her flesh and blood?

I believe the reason it disturbs you is because you were conditioned to be disturbed by it. However, I like to think out of the box of society conditioning. So I would like to know why it is objectively wrong to have sex in front of your children?

 

I believe it does happen because the DNA is so close

 

One proven deformity caused by incest is a blueish color of the skin.



I have been to Eastern Kentucky a few times, and have met people that look like this. Deep in the Appalachian Hills, ther actually are communities that all share the same DNA, and smurf looking skin. The jokes are true

 

We have gained knowledge from experience. Experience has told us it's not good to have offspring and then have sex with them. We're not a bunch of monkeys. ahhhhhhh--bye-bye.

 

The part of it being flesh and blood is animal instinct type thing. She gave birth to him, like a Bear or Lion mum she should be there to protect him type thing not look at him as a mate.

Just something a child should not need to see at a young age. I think the parents should be able to move to another room at least, personaly I think it's just rude.

 

^Yes this is why sex acts between parent and child is wrong.


Also it can be mentally damaging to the child, because he or she would not know the gravity of what they requested. Also let's not forget the there are anatomy issues with having sex too young, and it can be harmful to an individual if they are too young.

In addition, there will come a time where that child will grow up and realize sex within the family does not happen in other families and the teasing and the shame will cause further psychological harm. It also teaches the child a bad example of what the parent to child relationship is all about, and sex plays no role in that.

Giving knowledge, just information, about sexual health issues from parent to child is a debated topic today. But sex acts are out of the question.
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I would like to say though that when you get to the mid-to late teens (15-19) though this topic about it being ok to have sex is more debatable, because some people's brain's mature faster than others. The law about age of consent is established on a base average of brain development and maturity but there certainly are exceptions.

 

When I read the replies I believe there are some misunderstandings.

I am not saying that it is okay for parents and children to have sex to create new babies. Again, I am just using sex in the "let's have some fun" sense of the word. That is why I define sex, when not used for creating babies, as being a game. It's just having fun, nothing more.

Because I view sex as a playful game I truly cannot understand the comparison with violence. Sex is not violent... What about rape? Yes rape is violent, that is not because it involves sex, that is because it involves forcing someone to do something they do not want to do.

When I talk about sex between a child and an adult I'm not talking about an adult fucking a child. That would obviously hurt the child and might even get her pregnant. I am talking about the adult and the child playing a fun game, in which the child is in control. The child is the one who decides who touches who and where and how and the child is the one who decides when the game is over.

I want to address the issue about consent. Why people say things like:

What gravity? You assume that such a request has great gravity, but why does it? So many questions pop in my head now. Are you afraid they will regret it later? Why would they? The only way I can imagine that someone would regret having fun is if someone else told them they should regret it. But even if they do regret it, why would that be traumatizing? A child might consent to going into a roller coaster and regret it later, but that doesn't mean they are traumatized.

That's not an argument. People are also being teased if they have gay parents. That doesn't mean gay parents are wrong, that means teasing is wrong. Simple as that...

 

The reason I commented about children being conceived was because sex play between males and females can become foreplay that leads to intercourse and conception. I drew conception into the scenario because it's possible that foreplay between parent and child became taboo to prevent conception.

 

I hope that someone who has been sexually abused by a parental figure finds this thread. I would like even more to see you explain your views to that person face to face.

 

This is exactly how a good portion of children are conceived.

 

So what is it exactly that you want to say with this? That there are people out there who don't understand how to NOT create a baby?

 

There certainly are more than a fair amount of people who don't give a damn if they create a baby or not.

 

What I meant to say was, how is this relevant to the argument?

 

What was the question? Was it about sex between parent and child, or was it about sex between adult and child?

 

To me it was about adult and child. The reason I gave an example about parent and child is because I wanted to describe a situation in which the child is raised with the idea that naked bodies are normal and that sex is normal. I believe in such a situation a child could genuinely ask such a question.

I believe that if you are raised with the idea that you should hide your body and that sex is a loaded topic then you behave that way.

 

^ THIS!!!! OP, did the senario you mentioned in your original post happen to you? Is that why you are so interested in knowing what people think about it? I personally think having sex with ANY family member is WRONG! It's wrong morally and it's wrong physically, incest can cause birth defects, deformations and other very cruel genetic diseases caused by inbreeding.

 

It's relevant because, the child could be physically harmed.

You also failed to acknowledge my argument about physical harm that can come from sex even if it's not forced...that part of the body is extremely easily harmed.
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Also it if a child asks their parent to do something to them, that's really messed up. Children are not interested in sex at a young age anyway, their brain isn't developed to that level to want that kind of behavior. They might be curious about the opposite gender, laugh at toilet humor, but you just cannot compare a child's view of the world to an adult's.

And sex is of the adult world (teens too, let's be realistic here)

Your hypothetical scenario, in this post does not exist in the real world generally speaking.
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Incest is wrong for scientific reasons genetically speaking and psychologically speaking for development of an individual regardless of culture.

 

Even if you don't take conception by incest into account, sexual foreplay between an adult and a legally underage person, of opposite genders, could lead to intercourse which could lead to conception. What is wrong with this is that an underage person may not be capable of making decisions about parenthood.

That's what I think when I try to take the moral taboo out of the scenario.