Well, here's the situation. I was dating a girl for about 6 months. After the 6 months, she left me for another guy. Now, 6-7 months later she wants me to take her back. I think her bf dumped her, or they're fighting or something... The song "nookie" by limp bizkit comes to mind here, but i don't wanna get burned in the end. truth is, i barely have any feelings for her anymore since she betrayed me like that by leaving me. i'm thinking, just start talking/hangin with her again, and keep my guard up...so what should i do?
tell her exactly what you just said "i barely have any feelings for her anymore since she betrayed me like that by leaving me. i'm thinking, just start talking/hangin with her again, and keep my guard up" be honest with her and hopefully she wont be too upset.
Yeah, you guys are right and I agree with you...but like I said, I no longer intend to spend the rest of my life with this girl...I just want to get my rocks off for the most part. I'm sure that one way or another though, if I start seeing her again i'll start to care about her again to some extent since that's just human nature. i know that in a perfect world, I would say "fuck off bitch" and never speak to her again, but unfortunately it's not. It isn't like I can't find anyone else or anything, but i did just have a couple attempted relationships fall apart on me recently so that helps. So my question is, if I should decide to take her back (and I know that it's probably not the best decision) , for whatever reason it may be, would that really reflect really poorly on me? I just dont want to be a total bitch by caving right in to her right when she comes running back to me. Maybe theres a way to take her back and still save face? I dunno, it's a ridiculous...
hum... if you dont have any feelings for her right now, you dont miss her, dont wanna be with her most of the time, then you should drop it. i mean, youre over it, so why start all again and then maybe, later, being in love and then being hurt, if she does the same once again?
I too like Jugg's idea, but like said before you once had feelings for her. By having any contact with her you take the chances of those feeling coming back... Is that what u really want? to go thru all of this again later down the road.... I would simply tell her "you had ur chance, fuk off"