Cant get hard for sex..

Hi and i have this problem that has happened 2 times already.. me and this girl are going to have sex and then all of a sudden when i get the condom and about to put it on i get soft... I dont know what is happening. Is there an explanation? its weird too because im like hard like 60% of the time im cuddling with her. and for the record i have no problem masterbating its just right before sex im thinking its just cus the condom breaks the mood?

 

are you a virgin? could be first time jitters.

 

no i am not a virgin we have had sex does it matter that we were a little tipsy last time we had sex?

 

yeah, whiskey dick can be a problem too.

 

Alcohol is pretty awful for sex. It's quite ironic that it's the legal, "dating" drug of choice for western society. Sure, it lowers inhibitions and lowers judgement, but it also cripples performance and pleasure. I guess it only makes sense though, the west never cared about how to be a good lover, since women don't have orgasms and sex is for babies. Check eastern culture for better substances to combine with sexual pleasure :sifone:

 

Pretty much all drugs, including alcohol, are a no-no for me if I am about to have sex. I haven't found one that makes it better. Over the counter antihistamines are especially bad. Approach the bedroom sober, and see if your problem goes away.

Or, you could be just nervous.

 

i have issues like this and alcohol really doesn't help. You're probably just too used to masterbating. I can cum in minutes with my hand but with girlfriends who turn me on majorly i can fuck for days (literally) and not orgasm. in a way i like it as i can keep going and hear the wonderful cries of joy from her

 

See the other post I made on erecetile dysfunction .You might like to try female condoms

 

Possible nerves mixed with alcohol, is never a good combination. Condoms do tend to ruin the mood, especially if you're already being intimate together!

Just relax, don't drink, don't masturbate beforehand in hopes you last longer - just approach it and forget about everything else.

 

Drink wine if you are feeling lucky that night !
Wine dilates blood ves... Makes you hard(unless you drink too much) and due to the 'numbness', slower ending. Or no ending for you if too much of course.

But! The best remedy is a pill for the nights when you are drunk/tired and still horny. Most of them work well with alcohol these days.

If you fail with the pill, change brand!
I've noticed a correlation between blue and red pills and quality !

Also, have you tried imagining someone else on top?(bottom)
Maybe, you've lost interest( )

 

I use Endurnz. Give that a try.