Kinda embarassing topic... We've finally gotten into anal though its a bit of work to take him but it's an exciting challenge im kinda obsessed with taking him as easily and vigorously as I did up front! We havent had vaginal sex in a few months (my choice and the anal is getting easier, but... still tricky, but i want him so badly there! one thing is tho, sometimes he gets in the mood and... im not quite ready as it were... kinda like the issues up front but on a shorter time scale... frustrating for me too sometimes! after Im all cleared out, so to speak, i take a shower and soap up a few fingers and clean myself out pretty good.. but if its too soon after, things seem to be a bit messier. kinda have to wait a bit - still woking out how long exactly, and I bet everyone's different. conversely when I do clear out, it kinda gets my mind going that i'll be available for him soon, and this turns me on a lot! *blush* this is kinda embarassing... we're not into messy play at all, i want to be squeaky clean for him, but it seems that i've developed this link between my uh, schedule and feeling horny back there for him... like im empty and need him to fill me back up! anyone else feel this way?
Sort of - my wife also seems to like anal right after pooping. She enjoys the full feeling in her rectum. Her and I arent overly concerned about squeaky clean, just mostly clean is good enough for us. Its probablt normal what you are feeling.
First I would like to say it's awesome to see other girls interested in anal! The wife and I are also really into anal. Even though she's embarrassed to admit it she enjoys it in the ass more than in the vag. You know the saying a mind is a terrible thing to waste? Well the wife and I have our own personal saying about anal, "A clean empty ass is a terrible thing to waste." Every time the wife has a good clean bm she'll ask me if I want anal because she's clean. She got to the point where she just stopped asking and would just come out with lubed up butthole. I mean, what guy could resist a big juicy butt lubed up and ready for penetration!?
You should just train yourself to go the toilet at specific times. It's amazing how your body adjusts after frequent routine.
I have posted about our way of dealing with the cleanliness issue on the Women's Health Anal Sex forum at About.com This forum has been going on for years and has over 2,000 posts! My post starts at #2250. I'll clip & paste it here: She lies on her right side with her left leg drawn up. I gently massage her anus with my lubed thumb (we use Alberto VO5 hair dressing). I massage her while telling her how sexy and beautiful she is but she does not want me to insert any fingers at this point. Then I gently push my dick in, stopping when she commands, allowing her to be in control of my movements. I push in slowly until I am about 3/4 inserted and then I hold still allowing her to relax. At this point she asks me to pull out slowly and check for “intruders”. I lube up my index and middle fingers and go up inside her, checking for any fecal matter. (It is easier to feel it with the fingers than with the dick.) If something is there she goes to the bathroom and then we start again with a bit of massage but this time the insertion is much easier. By making a little game out of finding the feces early on we avoid any embarrassing incidents later on. This also draws out the love making and I am very much in favor of making it last longer!!
We have anal play an weekends here, now as far as cleaning I use a douche and ummm clean that way. This way I know there are no surprises!
Well westside I guess it's a BIT different for girls, since... we uh have other choices, but choose not to go that way hehe! Just depends on the timing is what's im finding, tho sometimes when im not thinking about it but have to go, and i shower afterwards it makes me feel 'available' and... almost well, I think about it and im kinda tingly back there. Do other girls get that tingly sensation? I dont know if its just in my head or if im feeling it in back for real.. is it possible its kinda similar like up front?
Well myttia,i think its perfectly natural 4 u 2 feel tingly bak thea.im sure most girls do feel that way..its just that they won't admit it...n abt upfront,im nt so sure..u knw,i wish i had a girl lyk u who's in2 anal hehe
a good place to start learning about anal sex is this: LINK REMOVED There are rules to anal sex and they are rules for a reason. It is not the same as vag sex!
Yeah its not exactly the same, but... I kinda want it to take the place of up front, know what I mean? Be able to take him as easily and just as often!! So the actual business of being ready for him kinda taken care of and all not really part of the whole act, just the fun part where I get to have him all the way in me! (almost there... still practicing.) Do any other girls here think of it kinda, as, 'replacing' doing it up front?
Myttia, The more anal u have the easier it will be for you. Just keep working at it. There's nothing wrong with preferring anal. My lady loves it.
U know wat,i think with time n lots of practice,u will be able 2 take him in as easy as u can..u'll c..
