I am with my true love in life now! We have a strong bond, a trusting relaitionship and an over the top amazing sex life together. I was in a loveless marraige for years which thankfully ended a few years ago and then this great person entered my life. We have both got huge sex drives and are fairly open minded people. Neither one of us has any interest in leading a swingers life, because anything we do sexually we want to do together. We are however trying to set up a FFM threesome with another sexy girl. My girl is bi-curious and never had a chance to experiance another woman. There is enough trust in each other that we are not worried that by doing this we are going to ruin what we have together. This is an exciting fantasy we both share and we are looking very forward to making it happen. The only problem I have is that it has also became a huge fantasy of mine to share her with another man! I am straight myself, but the thought of her being the center of attention of myself and another guy for a night is a huge turn on. I would want it to be all about her being treated like the sex goddess I feel she is. To be able to watch her being serviced by another guy while I am also taking care of her is so erotic to me. She knows how I feel about it! We are very open with each other and don't believe in keeping things bottled up. Part of the reason we have such a strong bond is the trust we have. However she has no interest in making this happen at all. She says it just isnt a turn on to her to be with another man and myself at the same time. She says that she gets all that she needs from a man from me now. I love her and respect her so I would not want to push her into doing something she doesnt want. I will just have to realize that this is just one of those fantasy's that will have to stay a fantasy. Kind of sucks though, because I want it so bad.
Have you considered meeting another couple? Not like a swingers party but finding a couple you enjoy hanging out with and are attracted to. There are lots of people into this. That was she can experience being with a girl and you can watch her with another man. Also, it's a lot easier to find a couple than a single woman for a threesome
Well we did find another woman and hooked up with her on Friday night! Went really well and now my girl says she can totally understand why I like eating pussy so much. I have talked to her about getting with another couple as well! After finally going through with the ffm I am thinking things might just open up for us even more. We are both fine with what happened and if anything it just made our bond together even tighter. We are able to know the difference between love and sex. We love each other and our sex life together is amazing. Bringing someone else in once in a while is just one more thing we can share together and enjoy. Not something either of us feel we need.
Wow is this an old post! Nothing like a spammer to revive it. Since i posted this we have had multiple experience with other couples as well as an ffm with another woman. Still have not had our mmf, but that is next on our list when we finally find a suitable guy.
Thanks I really don't think our sex life can get any better at this point! It is already amazing even without bringing others in. We actually both agree after the experiences we have had with other that nothing can come even close to what we have with just each other. We will still probably do it from time to time with the right people just for something different once in a while, but won't be going out of our way to make it happen. It is nice to know it is always an option with us and that there are no trust issues in our relationship to deal with.
That is good, at the end of the day its best to realize that the relationship is really best with you and her, without other men and women interfering. The whole 3some thing can wrong very quickly as many couples have had that same problem happen to them too. First they love each other and trust each other, then the other "toy" comes in, the women gets jealous, the man gets jealous, and the relationship is thrown out the window. Its best for you two to just be together and im glad you two realize it.
