This is slightly embarrassing, but here goes. My boyfriend and I would both like to try anal sex, but I would like to avoid any 'mess.' I have heard about 'douching' but I really do not like the idea. Is there any other way to prevent the whole 'messy' part of it? Any help would be appreciated, Thanks! :blush5:
To be honest, every time I've ever had anal sex there was never a mess, ever. Just take a shit before you go to bed and you'll be good, people who anally douche and use enemas and whatnot are just being overly cautious. A little dookie is no big deal, if you're eating a healthy diet and have regular consistency poop anyways (no diarrhea or funky mushy shit, normally) then you're more than likely good.
In all honesty, at first, you're not even gonna care about poop because it's going to hurt (unless you're smart and did anal exercises and some light stretching before hand). Just go with it, the chance of a mess is so small, I've done anal a few times (I'm no anal master) but every time there has never ever been a problem, really the only mess is if he comes inside of you and you need to go shit it out...heh
I'm not worried about the cum part, I just think that the whole shit-dick part is bound to be a turn off.
If you're properly lubed, any shit that may be on his cock when he pulls out will be like.. wiped off on the inside of your asshole and remain if your rectum when he withdrawals, if that's a pretty picture that you wanna imagine lol
Hey I am an overly cautious one and I douche before, but thats so we fully play if you catch my drift.
Well we've been able to fully play with each other without any preventive measures, and with mouth, fingers and cock he's been able to explore my ass all the way, especially with my ex I did like it in the ass better because his cock was quite long and my pussy is quite shallow, if you catch my drift. But if you're really worried about it, just take a nice good shit before you go to bed, because if you're not interested in douching or using an enema, that's really all you can do. Using a laxative to clean yourself out is a definite no-no, as that can result in an extremely unwanted surprise while you're hot and heavy lol
I do catch ya:2thumbsup: I clean because we'll swap from ass to pussy then I'll suck him type thing. It's more for my peace of mind lol. And ya laxatives no-no. But relax and enjoy OP!!
Darling, there will be a hard penis being rammed into your rectum. There won't be any white swans or pink teddy bears present. It wont be a romantic moment you will want to video and share with your friends from school. Nor your grandmother.
me and my girlfriend have anal sex quite regularly and we have only had the problem of getting shit on my penis once, this was when she had been a bit ill and knew that anal sex probably wasn't a good idea at the time but we did it anyway. Though to be honest it didn't really turn me off at all when it happened. so yer if your poo is pretty solid at the time you want to have anal, you shouldn't really have any problems with "mess"
i go then shower to ensure the outside is clean, put a few soapy fingers in perhaps and kinda relax and rinse out (but not any water really, in that can wash things down lower so you get more mess!), then later im pretty much mostly clean. sometimes when I know we're going to be getting naughty, Ill lube up a bit and use a narrower dildo and clean anything off it that comes out, stroking in and out a few times til its clean lol most of the time nothing is there though, most stuff is kept up higher inside you. as for narrow, i use that because I really want him to stretch me out not the dildo!! lol. tho so far we're close but cant get him in all the way, too wide!! (so far.) seizedbyanger: long enough to go past your curve inside? sounds naughty
Even if you do get faeces on your penis after Anal Sex - so what? Has nobody hit on the idea of having a shower AFTER the event?
I don't know about you, dude, but it fucking turns me on when an anal whore is so caught up in the heat of the moment that she will suck my cock even if it has her shit on it. Girls like that are worthy of jewelry.
