Men: Preferences during orgasm/ejaculation?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Intrinsicly, Mar 28, 2012.

  1. Intrinsicly

    Intrinsicly Guest

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    I have a question that I'm somewhat curious about, so I thought I'd ask here! I recently read an excerpt from a study by Masters and Johnson (two big sex researchers) that said that that less than 10% of men continue thrusting or stimulating the penis during orgasm/ejaculation, and that most just hold still until it is over, regardless of what form of sexual act is taking place. However, I have noticed in porn (since I don't know what guys do otherwise, and porn obviously doesn't mimic reality) that 99% of the men there seem to not only continue stimulation during their orgasms, but seem to want more lol. I found that discrepancy very interesting, so I thought I would ask here and find out what sort of stimulation, if any, most men prefer during their orgasms. Also ladies, feel free to share your partner's preferences as well!

    For me personally, I find that it usually feels best if nothing is touching my penis once I start to ejaculate. Everything gets really sensitive at the start so it kind of ruins the experience to keep going. Having something touching my penis can still be very enjoyable, but the added sensations seem to distract my focus from the overall orgasm.
     
  2. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    I try to keep going for round two!! but sometimes the sensation is just to much.
     
  3. Raga_Mala

    Raga_Mala Psychedelic Monk

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    I can often go multiple rounds in a row, but I have to have a few miniutes' rest between. I can't cum and continue humping right away.

    As far as during the moment of the orgasm I suppose that I slow down quite a bit. For a while my gf and I used the pulling-out method so in that case once I was about to cum I had to pull out so I kind of couldn't hold still automatically. But once she got on the pill I'd say I generally slowed to a very gentle thrust once the ejaculation began. But not totally still.
     
  4. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    i like cumming in vagina while humping
     
  5. Intrinsicly

    Intrinsicly Guest

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    Yeah, I meant more the actual moment of orgasm by my question, rather than what happens afterwards or whether you can continue for a second "round". And thanks for the replies so far everyone!
     
  6. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    I like going deep, and just grinding my pelvis against hers when I let go.

    But then I start up again, and really like to take advantage of that hypersensitive moment that is still there after the initial cum.

    I know what you mean by slower, but lighter? I like more harder friction when hypersensitive rather than lighter...please clarify OP.
     
  7. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    yeah, pushing as deep as I can go is about all I can do. It's far to sensitive to do any more movement for a few minutes after.
     
  8. Intrinsicly

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    Well the / in the poll was meant as more of an and/or, so slower and/or lighter. Just trying my best to be all-inclusive with the poll options listed :p
     
  9. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah, i don't stop until the orgasm's finished.
     
  10. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    when I'm masturbating at the moment of climax I stop stroking the full length and concentrate on just the few inches behind the head.
     
  11. ToFunToDie

    ToFunToDie Senior Member

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    Keep pumping! KEEP PUMPING!
     
  12. dastud

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    Sometimes I like to stop all movement but I always like it in her as far as it will go. Sometimes I like to increase speed. Depends on my mood.
     
  13. golfer01

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    I essentially stop moving my hand once I'm over the point of no return. Letting go kills it, and pumping more is just as bad.

    During sex I stop thrusting and shove in as deeply as possible once I know it's cumming.
     
  14. GentleBen

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    How can you keep going ? The orgasmic vagina locks your knob so you can't get it out easily, you just have to lay there while the vagina squeezes the hell out of your penis.
     
  15. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    a male orgasm does not necessarily cause a female orgasm. in fact, a male orgasm does not necessarily even occur inside a vagina.
     
  16. meridianwest

    meridianwest Senior Member

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    i don't stop stimulation until i'm through with the orgasm. it's not THAT sensitive. and in the high of the orgasm i just can't be bothered with what little extra sensitivity there might be. the moment of orgasm you could probably stab me in the gut and i wouldn't feel it.
     
  17. Rabbit420

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    At the actual moment of orgasm I thrust my penis as deeply into her vagina as possible and grind my pelvic bone against hers while simultaneously squeezing her as tightly as possible until my orgasmic shudders subside.
     
  18. Homie_B

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    It depended on who I was doin. You know there's certain people you don't to run the risk of knockin up. So here's my take with and without condom.

    With-I'll do a couple of thursting after I cum. I had a scare once when I was a rookie, I kept going after and I came and the condom broke and that was one chick I didnt want to knock up.

    Without-she would be on birth control obviously, I'll thrust hard as fuck, I mean bury my dick far as possible into that pussy until I stop or my dick gets hard again and we fuck again.
     
  19. goonergen

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    It varies but nomally i like to go slower when the point of no return is near and I try and tense really tightly to hold me from ejaculating until I can hold no longer and just cum really hard. The longer you can tense up without cumming is well worth it as I find the orgasm so much more intens

    This I find amazing if you are on your back and with a woman who is great at giving blow jobs. Cos Im on my back i can hold it longer until it feels like she has sucked me dry. It feels so great that my legs go into spasms! Lol
     
  20. xxxman6789

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    I like to take my hand off just before I cum and let it build and cum hands free. Then I can go back to stroking and have a another mini cum after that. Closest I can cum to muliple orgasms.
     
  21. KiloFoxx

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    (Gay male sub, just for the record before i start)
    anyway...
    i can experience 2 orgasms actually, one normally, and one anally, they're disconnected and act completely different.
    for a normal orgasm i pretty much stop and just rub very slowly, it becomes too oversensetive to keep going at that point.
    for an anal orgasm (i cannot do this on my own unfortunatly) i can usually ride that orgasm for as long as my partner keeps going, so i prefer it to keep going at the same pace, if not faster
     

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