Okay so I'm friend's with my ex boyfriend. He's an Aquarius and I'm an Aries female. We dated for 3 years and broke up the beginning of last year. It took a while for me to get over the breakup and be good friend's again. But now that we are I'm confused by his mixed signals. He says he does want a girlfriend again but isn't really focused on that, claiming he just wants to focus on his job and himself right now. I told him about a guy I like and how I was disappointed that the guy isn't making any moves to forward our relationship and my ex told me that I should just move on if nothing has happened. Don't get me wrong I love where I am in the friendship status with my ex, we we're very good friends since we were children and I'm happy that we can get back to that place. But I've been really confused for the past few weeks with his mixed signals. It's like he's totally flirting with me saying stuff that he told me was not appropriate a few months ago. I mean I don't mind and I'm totally okay with being fwb with him, in fact I had mentioned if he would be okay if we were a few days ago and he said he didn't know. And I talked about moving to his area (different State) for work and I said that I may have to live in my car for a while until I can afford a place and he said that I could stay with him until I find a place and I asked where I would sleep and he said that it would be in his room so I asked where he would sleep and he said we would sleep in the same bed. I asked how that would work out seeing as how we aren't a couple anymore and he said that nothing would happen. I told him not to sound like a slut or anything but if one thing led to another that I wouldn't tell him to get off or anything and he laughed. So basically we flirt back and forth I guess but I'm also sort of confused because I'm not sure If he's telling me to get over the guy that I like and that he's not interested in anything but focusing on his job and basically telling me one thing while he's acting another way. He told me that he's over me but the way his actions have been the past few weeks say a different story. I don't know if he's telling me lies and hiding that he's still in love with me. Like I said I really don't mind the flirting thing, it's really flattering and I've finally gotten to a place where I'm really over him and enjoy being friends again. But if he is still in love with me and flirting with me to send me hints I don't want to keep it up and lead him on if I'm not in love with him anymore. Is this typical behavior with an Aquarius male? I know they like to be friends with their ex but I've dated an Aquarius before and the last one didn't want to be friends after the breakup. Please help.
Aquarius males are usually like that. I dated an aquarius male & I`m a taurus female. They always pull that mixed signal bullshit. I can`t stand it! You seem to handle it better though. Since aquarians tend to be floating in their own demensions constantly, they don`t think of how the other person is going to think or react. They tend to go with the flow, or live in the future; they don`t really think of the outcome of things though. I`m not sure what the love connection between an aquarius & an aries is, but it seems like they have a better communication than taurus` & aquarians do. I`d look more into the aquarius & aries relationship. It might give you a good idea of what your connections are & how to better understanding him, since aquarius men can be hard to understand at times. Best of luck! eace:
I mean he got mad at me a few times when I asked if we can try again. Even yelled at me and told me that I should just get over him and that he's moved on. Now that I have and want nothing more than to be friends with him, it seems like he's totally flirting with me (Like we're joking sexually and talking about things again he once said was inappropriate) which is making me think he still loves me but won't admit it since he's the one who told me to get over him. I mean I love him too, I always will we've known each other for a little over 16 years and we were always best friends and then we dated for 3 years so I'll always love him but if he's trying to throw me hints that he still love me but won't speak up I'll have to stop talking to him the way we're talking now because I really don't want to lead him on and make him think I'm still in love with him. And the reason why I won't question him about it is because I really don't want to embarrass myself for the forth time by asking. I really appreciate your response czarpoesia, I've read every site I could about Aquarius men and this type of behavior but I think I have come to the end of the internet on this case now so this is why I have come here for answers. I'm trying this site in hopes that he doesn't find this because I've thought about posting asking for answers but I've been really scared, fearing that he may find my post and get mad at me. Yahoo Answers is so well known that I'm afraid he'd find my post in no time. I'm hoping to get more answers from others that know about an Aquarius man better or have really good experience with star signs (Or how ever you say it lol). Please and thank you czarpoesia
If you give me yours & his birth date, month, & year I could calculate it & post the information on here for you if you`d like. :daisy:
Why would I ignore him? I just want to know what this behavior is that he's displaying toward me so I can understand better. I don't want to lead someone on and break their heart in the end if it happens to be true that they are secretly in love with me and I dare not ask him again because then it'll just be awkward for us again and we'll stop hanging out again and I'm really enjoying what we have right now. Again, the only reason why I'm seeking help is because I'm afraid he still might love me but won't speak up maybe because he fears rejection from me or he'll feel like a hypocrite for demanding that I get over him but now won't speak up and tell me he still loves me. I'm no longer in love with him but I do still love him as a good friend and I'm just afraid I'll hurt him by keeping up this fwb thing with him if it's true. I just want to understand all of this.
Inter-planetary aspects The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual and spiritual levels. -176 Square Mercury - Mercury Negative aspect: Their communication styles are very different, so that there are many misunderstandings and annoyances arising from how things were said, what was said, and what was not said. It can be a challenge to solve problems together without getting into an argument. It might be best to think things over separately before turning to each other for support. -172 Square Mercury - Venus Negative aspect: Their relationship will sometimes be agreeable, sometimes disturbed. They will like to share their ideas which are not always to the other's taste, so that they may have interminable discussions in order to convince each other of their mistakes, lack of judgement or lack of taste. 120 Sextile Mercury - Venus Positive aspect: A relationship which will be agreeable, they will like to speak to each other, have a good intellectual understanding, their tastes will be very similar, they will like to share their feelings with each other. 118 Trine Sun - Jupiter Positive aspect: Here is a couple you like to be with. They are charming, agreeable and know how to entertain their friends generously and warmly. They go well together, and love each other in a discrete and sincere way, and appreciate the joys of life together. 93 Conjunction Saturn - Pluto Positive aspect: Favorable union. 89 Sextile Venus - Venus Positive aspect: Complete respect for each other's romantic style. They don't easily offend each other and instinctively understand what makes the other person happy. Conflicts arise, but they are generally smoothed over with ease, as there is good will between them. Very good aspect for a successful union. Love, gaiety, understanding. 80 Sextile Venus - Uranus Positive aspect: Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality. 79 Trine Sun - Uranus Positive aspect: The Sun person will be enriched by this relationship with Uranus, which will lead to the discovery of a new world, original and full of change. They will go well together, but the Uranus person may resist marriage, at least on a formal level. In some cases, the relationship works better when the bond is not formalized, simply for the sake of the Uranus person's sense of freedom. 71 Sextile Sun - Saturn Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner. 55 Sextile Saturn - Neptune Positive aspect: Favorable union. Neptune brings dreams to Saturn, who lacks them, and Saturn brings common sense to Neptune, who is totally without it. 47 Trine Mars - Pluto Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves. 41 Sextile Mars - Neptune Positive aspect: There is an ability to bring imagination and fantasy successfully to the relationship. While interactions can be hard to define at times, you help refine one another's outlook. There is an element of mystery that attracts you to one another. Some laziness might be stimulated between you, however. this is where I got it from; http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-...=3&d1year=1985&d2day=20&d2month=1&d2year=1983 :daisy:hope this helps sweetie
So basically you're saying they are just flirty and it all means nothing? In that case I have nothing to worry about then lol. Thank you.
i agree on ignoring him. forget him, you're into a new dude - turn the page. fwb with an old ex is fucking lame...
I am an aquarius female, but I tend to be hot and cold like that too...unless I am super emotionally involved (then pisces stellium kicks in). I have friends that have been lovers and they sleep over and what not, I care about them but I am not interested and although I let them crash and we share beds I wouldn't touch them with a stick. It's not that he is sending mixed signals, it might just be that you are reading more into his actions because you care more. He might turn around later and realize his feelings, but from experience, that doesn't always happen and once I become detached, I stay that way. Maybe he really wants to just be your friend and his idea of being nice comes off as flirting. I get accused of the same thing all the time.
Try this synastry site... you could try putting your birthdays in both ways... tells you how he sees the relationship and how you see it... Hope this helps... Here is the site: http://astrologysoftware.com/new_oracles/f&l/index.asp?orig=OldOracle
