I am trying to figure out what to do with this person. I can't seem to not think of him and he is freaked out by my intensity. It's almost as if he doesn't think I'm real. But I can't help but care about him and I just wish I could ease his fears. He is a total mess but I can see through him, I just see someone who craves stability and that fortunately for me is one of my stronger attributes. I am loyal and super stable and my morals are everything. I thought I was idealizing him at first... but when I look at his life I freaked out because I felt that I was way in over my head, but I care so much and I just like him... plain and simple. I don't care about all the crap that comes with him. I'm in academia and he is a musician. I find him comforting and I feel peaceful around him. I also have started to paint and write creatively since he has entered my life. I am just more creative around him and it has seriously helped my science career. Any insight? Any idea where this is going? He has stonewalled me for now... but he still laughs at my jokes. I am a silly silly person. So what do you guys think? Thanks so much.
Based on your description, it doesn't seem he's feeling you in a romantic way. Of course, I'm basing this assumption on one forum post, but when a guy likes someone... it's pretty obvious. My advice is to take a step back and see if he seeks you out, because if he's into you, he will (and I'm not talking his seeking you out for a booty-call). If he doesn't, then you have your answer and move on. I know enough about astrology to know that the chart profile would indicate a complex, conflicted person. But really, what person, especially a creative person, ISN'T complex and conflicted. The chart will not provide any insight into anything you don't already know. I'm just going to warn you to be careful about assuming things about a person. Love and idealization go hand in hand.
