never been "on top"

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by MissinMarijuanna, Mar 26, 2012.

  1. MissinMarijuanna

    MissinMarijuanna Guest

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    Any girls out there who have never been on top? My girlfriend says she's never been on top with anyone else except me. Said she never felt comfortable enough to do that position with them. I have a hard time believing this. So any girls who have felt the same way or understand where she's coming from?
     
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  3. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    no sorry, from my experience i can give girls much better orgasms when they ride on top and i sit up huggin em, some girls say it hurts there ovaries though >.< YIKES!! well just one girl...
     
  4. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i would think you would have to have seriously bony hips for that to be very uncomfortable.
     
  5. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    I can relate...before I was in a real relationship with my ex, I was never comfortable to get in that position...I think it requires confidence and some extra intimacy, aggression and autonomy to take that position and if you're not super into the person or just aren't that close you might not feel comfortable with it.
     
  6. Homie_B

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    every woman I been with has no problem ridin dick...I did work with a girl who said when she's on top she has no idea what to do.
     
  7. rtp

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    we are enjoying more when she is on top of me.
     
  8. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

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    I enjoy lady on top sex . Its also hard for her to start screaming rape if she is on top . desert rat
     
  9. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    is this a common problem for you?
     
  10. jaredfelix

    jaredfelix Namaste ॐ

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    im guessing when lady on top its voluntary for her
     
  11. dollyfizz

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    I used to find it uncomfortable. Not physically uncomfortable, but whilst a man is lying down, my body is completely exposed to him if I'm getting on top. I also used to worry if what I was doing was okay for him. It's only with my most recent partner that I love it. He's the only person I've ever felt completely comfortable being naked with though, and I didn't have to worry about if it was okay for him either, he loved the sight, and he loved me being in control :)
     
  12. Homie_B

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    Thats the best part of sexual exploration...tryin new positions to find out what the other person likes. A woman deprivin her dude of ridin him should be a felony.
     
  13. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I got my wife at one time to try it , I thoroughly got aroused looking at her body on top of me but she found it caused dicomfort so it was taken off our positions list.
    She soon found another much more comfortable for each of us shortly afterwards thou. It allows me to stimulate her clitorus & vagina both at once which was not quite possible with the on top position. Much as I liked the on top position much more than her! So compromising with other techniques is sometimes a much better outcome.
     
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    maybe they had big cock . big cock on top is pain for girls . i know . experience .
     
  15. cheeky118

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    love being on top and being in control now and then)) choose the speed, the deepness, the angle... what`s not to like?))
     
  16. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    How do you initiate sex with your partners cheeky118 ?
    I have a poll goin at the moment and want to know who takes the lead the most often or otherwise, to show they are wanting sex ? partner or self?
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    unless you quickly slide under her while she's sitting down.

    isn't your body pretty well exposed no matter what position you're in though?
     
  18. usedtobehoney

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    I would say no I'minmyunderwear

    Or at least it doesn't seem like it to a woman. With the partner on top there are shadows, corners and the ability to hide...especially to hide your face, which was(back in the days) important to me...also I know the room mates I had who were all more experienced than me, were all uncomfortable with being on top...or at least they said so...
     
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    for some reason I think my wife doesnt like my "O" face, she used to put a pillow over my face and when I would be on top, I would do the same jus to be a dick.
     
  20. noyb5349

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    Gehenna-fiery lol.
     
  21. noyb5349

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    Why is being on top associated with being in control lol?

    "I always do the f*ckin,..." is a line from a song that comes to mind when I think about me having sex:D. On the bottom, top, or behind, I'm always in that kind of control...
     

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