I'm not sure whether this belongs in the category of "orgasm" or "sexual health" but here I go: I've had multiple sexual partners, but never had an orgasm (I'm a 20-year-old female, for reference, lost my virginity at 17). I've been suffering from depression as long as I can remember, and finally went on antidepressants about two years ago. Before then I got hot enough and felt something through clitoral stimulation, but since then I just can't seem to even get close. Complicating the problem is that I'm currently single and don't foresee myself meeting anyone soon. I'm experimenting with toys but have no real confidence, as the closeness/companionship factor has always been key for me. This is a very frustrating problem and any help would be appreciated!
Antidepressants can reduce sexual performance - they do in my case (along with BP and prostate meds). Take your time with toys, relax, don't hurry, fantasize,,,,
Well I took a day off from my meds and masturbated for 3 hours - had a very mild, very brief O. Which is exciting, because I'm making progress! I had to repeat to myself "relax relax..." but it's a weird thought, having to make an effort to relax. I never realized how tense I was.
have you ever thought about letting another girl go down on you? I bet she could definitely help you O
Be careful when skipping your meds like that. I wouldn't recommend that. What you need is someone who will take thier time with you. I'm 100% sure I could make you cum. It may take several hours, but you will cum.
You just need to quit taking the pills and let me lick your pussy-if that doesn't work, you probably need to be in the hospital Dr. Bob's never failed so far to make a girl come with his tongue :tongue:
Thanks so much for the advice everyone! Skipping one day won't do anything, don't worry, it's only if I'm off them for several days that it becomes a problem. I'm just so isolated and miserable where I live. There is no way to overstate how slim the pickings are here for men (or for that case women, curious, since you suggested that route). And I'm not looking for hugs, just need to vent because I'm so damn isolated that I have no one here to say all this to! Bob, if you want to lick my pussy, be my guest. Please. I'm desperate.
All the best with your problems Lugubrious, sounds like you need expert help? Bob, I'm curious to know if that's your partner in the above photo ? A very nice curvy butt she's got !
Well you might have to move to find the right mate, what else can I say. I know the feeling when you dont have the intimacy. It's nice to cuddle and hug and all those lovely things that we do when we are in love.
