Alright, so last year I had my first bi experience. I had been wanting to try for at few years and finally started talking to a guy online for a while. Eventually went over and fooled around. Now the main thing about me is I only want to give head and dont really like receiving. So this went on with the guy for a while but he ended up moving back where he grew up. So now its been months since I last fooled around and I feel like my urge to give head has grown a lot. I dont know anyone personally that I could do this with so Ive been checking certain dating sites but Ive been very cautious about who to meet with though. Anyone have any tips of been in a similar situation?
i have never had a bi experience either. ive never even really thought of my self as bi or gay to be honest. but i have always been turned on by big thick dicks. so im sure im bi. the thought has never crossed my mind of anal sex.i just want to suck a dick so bad some times.
omg I've sucked so much cock just going out and waiting around for a guy to approach me. I used to have such a hard time meeting people, but I just relaxed and stopped being so standoffish. I've gone down on so many "straight" guys the past few years I lost count. I love nothing more than being down on my knees and worshiping another man's dick.
Being smart and cautious about connecting with other people is an excellent policy. No doubt, the world is full of all kinds of freaks and you want to remain aware of that at all the times. By this very same token, there are tons of cool guys out there who would be very happy to have a buddy like you. So, how do you proceed? Place a truthful profile on a few dating sites and state clearly who do you want to meet and for what purpose. It is better to filter out upfront all the dudes who want something more or less than you are willing to agree to give. Meet first in a public place. Have coffees and talk a bit. See, if this guys and you agree on the basics. You do not have to make life-long friends but you want to make sure that you are dealing with a decent guy who will respect your wishes and whom you can trust sufficiently. If you feel ill-at-easy, not too good about him for whatever reason, part on friendly terms and keep on looking. These things take time and effort, too. You may be lucky and meet your new buddy within days, or it may take a few months. But you'll get there, too. Meeting other people for sex (mostly) is never a risk-free venture. No matter how hard you try and how cautious you are, a certain level of risk will always be there. Your goal is to accept reasonable and calculable risks, have exit strategies and make it abundantly clear that you have reasonable and safe back up plans. When you come to think about, millions of people are enjoying their sexuality. Why shouldn't you be one of them? KD
when I started college I used dating websites to meet guys and girls. Usually we would meet up somewhere public like a bowling alley. if I was comfortable with them then we went back to their place or something. I think dating websites are great, you just have to be careful is all. Good Luck ^_^
Well one of the tough parts about it is Im in a small town and the closest city is an hour away so meeting someone a bit to travel. Though I suppose one of the big advantages is that since I dont live there I dont need to worry about meeting anyone I know its pretty much a blank slate. I find it odd that I tend to be pretty submissive when it comes to being with guys but I like being dominant when with girls. Id like to give a bj at least one more time and there is a fantasy I want to play out but not counting on it to happen. I just wish I could know someone in town that I could meet up with. Id do it every day if I had the option lol
Started out as a one time thing to satisfy my curiousity. About 8 months later I felt the urge to do it again. My M2M interaction continued to grow until I was meeting guys several times a week until outed to my wife about six months ago.
I've been curious about giving head for a long time now, and I'm very curious about. Gonna make a move soon,but not sure how to go about doing it. Married but never have sex anymore.
Good luck - I was outed to my wife of 20 years almost 2 years ago and we have gone thru different stages and are now open but primary. While I had my first m2m experience when 19 I was more or less heteo and then monogamous until about 7 years ago. Have to admit i have made up for lost time where guys are concerned. Topping or bottoming - love it. mfm/mmm threesums ever beta Simon :sunny:
