Im just wondering if the emotional connection a guy gets differes when he cums/ejaculates inside a woman then when he has sex and stops when he cums, particularly when he and girl are just best friends and not dating.. My best friend has mentioned about coming inside me, and even just laying and talking while his cock is in me.. just wondering if that's a sign of just gettin off or if theres a loving bond there..
Yes, if a guy stays inside you after he cums tell he goes soft while talking, he definitely loves you
Had a feeling.. just was curious what goes through a guys head during those times. We've known each other 10 years.. he's 43 im 32. We've had sex (came out each time) and understood it to be friendship based.. but this kinda shocked me. I'm not a virigin, had about two partners,, just havent been in a relationship in awhile..
Not really sure what bond is there, but its best to be open and talk about it so you are both on the same page. Sex strengthens bonds and if you wish to remain friends you need to be clear about your intentions. For me, I always enjoy cumming inside of my better half, but when I dont cum inside the bonds is still there but feels slightly less intimate. However when I cum inside I typically keep going if she still wants more. I think it really can vary depending upon the man and what his beliefs are. Best to talk to him and leave no subtle clues or anything! Best to be direct and leave nothing to chance. Best of luck and I hope that helps!
Bonds aren't determined by sexual acts. I wouldn't assume he 'loves' you just because he comes in you! Talk to him.