But I have some questions/concerns. And they might be kinda lame/embarrassing haha so bear with me? please? I'm 17 by the way. 1) Do I take my glasses off? I'm not blind--I can see without them but do i leave them on or take them off? haha. 2) What if it doesn't fit? Is it possible that it wont? 3) If we're not dating and we do it...is there a good chance we'll do it again? we're kind of friends and I don't really want a relationship...but I definitely want to do it with him more than once. Thank you so much!
Don't count your chickens before they hatched. If you get lucky and it goes down try not to over think it and just go with it. Your first time will probably suck but practice makes perfect.
Should be easy to convince a guy to do it more than once. It will fit. Don't force it in right away. Wait 'till you're wet and feel ready. Glasses on or off don't matter. Whatever you feel is sexier. Off may be less cumbersome. Enjoy and be safe, ya.
Are you sure he is the one? Not trying to talk you out of it but you can only lose your virginity one time. Is it his first time? If not he can guide you as you go. Good Luck to you both.
Yea I'm sure. I really really like him and I've never viewed sex as THAT big of a thing. I mean its not like it means nothing to me...we connect really well which is enough for me. But yea I definitely don't want this to be a one time thing but i'm also not looking for a relationship. Should I let him know that in advance? No he's definitely got some experience ha..which is good haha. I feel like that makes me a little less nervous. Thank you
Bring extra water-based lube since you're using a condom. Also make sure both of you go heavy on the foreplay especially if you feel tense or nervous. Girls have told me that sex is always better when they're relaxed and aroused. Bring a towel and place it under you in case you bleed. While in the act, try to get into it if you can, like move your hips thrust back if some particular angle gives you pleasure. --- I would also recommend telling him upfront that you want to keep this friends with benefits. But be warned I've seen other couples who start out that way and one person's feelings change, especially if the friends with benefits situation goes long term.
. First thing to do is have a few other sexual experiences with him. Jack him off and have him finger fuck you. Then the next time give him a blow job and suck him off and swallow. Make sure that he sucks you off also. Do a 69. Just take it easy and get use to each other. After doing all of this exploring and you are still together do some oral as foreplay and I am sure there will be no problem with him fitting because by now you will not be as nervous or scared. Have fun, take it easy and enjoy. Another thought is to do anal first. if you can do that getting your cherry busted would be easy and not as painful. Keep us informed. .
Take the glasses off. It will fit. Will you do it again? Depends on 1. If you're any good, 2. if she likes you/you like her and 3. You want to.
