Losing virginity via internet hookup

What is your opinion of that? I live in a small city with hardly any worthwhile gay guys that I'm aware of. I'm extremely horny and I want to try it. I don't hate being a virgin and I don't really mind it, it's just that the sex is available. I've heard the first time isn't spectacular, so I might as well start. Obviously it's hard to trust someone you meet online who is basically interested in just fucking you. Opinions and experiences welcomed.

 

I don't think it matters who you lose your virginity to. It's all a matter of gaining experience and learning sexually. The first person may be one of your worst or best experiences. But good thing about a random hook online is you don't have to see that person again, but if the hook up doesn't go so well you've still learned for your next time.

If you can chat some with people beforehand to gauge them out, you may find someone you like. Most of the time though you may be dissappointed, but there are definitely some guys out there who you will likely like or click with if you're a little patient.

 

Some people are more stuck on who pops their cherry than other people. If you want to take it easy, hook up with the guy whom you find attractive and sane. Give it a try. If it works, fine. If it does not, write it off and move on.

Avoid attaching too much importance to any one particular experience. Even the best dudes have a bad day. Even the worst dudes sometimes do it right. No matter what, the sun will rise tomorrow, and the life goes on.

KD

 

I'm assuming you're referring to cybersex. If so, online sex is safer sex...no exchange of fluids, and no real chance of getting gay-bashed. Good luck!

Otherwise, meeting someone through the Internet isn't necessarily any more dangerous than going to a bar or any other more traditional cruising spot. Men you meet offline aren't always trustworthy or interested in more than sex.

 

i had a gay friend who uses adam4adam with success

 

My first was with my long time best friend, and I always felt glad it was somebody I knew. But if things was different and I used a condom I think a stranger would have done as long as I didn't get a creep or a-hole vibe off them.

 

Yeah I mean if he's hot I'm gonna do it! But there's hardly anyone on realjock and everyone on manhunt is old and creepy plus that site is terrible. I'll look around on adam4adam :B

 

Lots of guys on adam4adam, hopefully I'll find a good guy. I actually found my old french teacher from high school... very weird, considering how revealing his pictures are..

 

Uhm, sorry for my very peculiar and vulgar question, but I have to ask - as a gay man - can you literally lose your virginity two times? I mean first time as a receiver and second time as the giver (or vice versa, the order dunn matter).

 

From a safety standpoint I'd suggest not using the Internet for a hookup. There's a lot of creepy people on sex hookup sites and being dead is certainly worse than being a virgin.

 

I suggest you wait. for one, the only guys who will be for meeting a random person for sex are creeps that patrol sites looking for the said result. and honestly you dont want your first time to be with a sexual predator who probably has more std's than paris hilton AFTER puberty! also, one day you're going to meet someone and fall in love and it's going to be a completely trashy and disrespectful story to tell them, and you'll probably then feel ashamed about it.

 

I lost my virginity from an online hookup on craigslist, and it was definately an awesome experiance, but it was followed by a bunch of crappy ones. Adam4adam is a really good site though.