What makes a woman exciting in bed?

I have the same problem that I tend to worry more about my partner's pleasure than my own. It's easier said than done, but do what feels good for you. Wouldn't you rather fuck a guy who is really turned out than one who is only trying to get you off. Once you are relaxed and enjoying it you're set.

 

Seeing my wife completely nude! Not partly undressed.

 

Enthusiasm