Girlfriends making life confusing.

To give a brief history. We met Aug of 2009, and have been off and on since without a title until Sep of last year (2011). We have been on non stop since then.

She has been questioning our future together for the last month and moved back to her moms (she's been living with me at home for the past 5 months), and she's been spending 99% of her time outside of work hanging out with friends who she has made a point to keep me separated from since we met.

She says it's stuff I've done that have gotten us to this point, and in her defense I did make some mistakes, but she refuses to acknowledge her mistakes and flaws. And whenever I try to point them out it's me making her a bad person, and she blows up about it. She talks to me about how she isn't comfortable with me having female friends, and even talking to most of them. Yet her best friend is one of her ex's in a sense, and while she gets upset at me for sending smiley emoji's to female friends she'll send <3's and what not to her guy friends, and even puts hearts by there names in her phone yet come to find out she singled me out and removed the one by my name recently.

Should I be concerned about something going on that I'm not aware of?

 

fuck that shit

 

Confront her about it, if she's not completely honest just dump her. It may be hard but you don't need a girl like that; trying to control your actions while not upholding the same standards on her part. If your too much of a pussy, delete your Facebook, cease contact, and she will confront you (where you will then, both, reveal all your relationship issues) and problem solved. Either she gets straight and goes back to you or it ends all together. Life is simple, we make shit complicated

 

She doesn't sound like a girlfriend to me.

 

She hasn't been much of a girlfriend since we've been on the rocks. Unlike her I have acknowledged my mistakes and I'm working on them, but she refuses to let go of them or acknowledge that some of her mistakes are mistakes. She always claims it's me making her a bad person, and making her feel like shit...

 

They have moved on.

 

Codependency is codependent.

 

tell her you can have your female friends if you want

if shes not ok with it, dump her

 

Perhaps it's life which makes girlfriends confusing.