Is sex worth it if you don't have an orgasm?

It has been about 3 years since I had sex. I'm obviously very horny, but the 2 sex partners I had before were not any good and barely even got me wet let alone have an orgasm. I want to have sex but I want it to be mutually stimulating, not just him having an orgasm. I'm kinda scared to have sex again because I'm expecting it to be bad.

 

I pretty much never have an orgasm during actual penetration, but I still love it. Of course, he then touches me to make sure that I do have an orgasm.

So my advice is the next time you get intimate with someone, make sure they go down on you or touch you so that you feel satisfied too.

 

You might try different positions , on top , doggy , 69 , ect. A lot of ladies take longer than guys , or guys cum too quick . Sometimes I just cum quick , weight a bit and do it again . desert rat

 

Errr, or you could just try get with hotter guys

 

Sometimes, yes. Always, no. Long term one-sided sex is frustrating. No pun intended.

 

i need either an orgasm or a paycheck.

 

As a male, who has been to drunk to cum; with a girlfriend who has not yet had an orgasm -- hell yeah, it's still worth it.

 

Yes I have to o, try on top you can stimulate your clit this way and most women funds it easier this way to reach that sweet awesome orgasm

 

Sometimes the fun is in the journey not the destination.

 

Make sure the guy knows he must make you happy , or find some one else . desert rat

 

But what fun is it if you never reach that destination?

 

I appreciate the insight, I think I'll start trying new things and being a bit more vocal about what I like

 

I have to agree, it sucks when he has an orgasm and I'm just laying there going "that was it?"

 

I see the destinations as a bonus, so to me it's already fun.

Umm it's simple, find someone willing to help you get your orgasm too

 

I really enjoy the actual act of sex, the feeling of her body against mine the felling of being inside her, feeling her breath on me, I'd it doesn't end in orgasm then just help each other get off. I also really enjoy the feeling of masturbating and will usually try to make it last as long as possible before cumming.

 

The ultimate goal is orgasm. I do my best to give her one, and i always have one.

 

I would recommend to play with yourself for a little bit, when you have free time. Get to know yourself again. Once you have reached a point of comfort, show them where you want to be kissed and direct your partner around the way you like. Make it an intense experience with great communication. You'll orgasm in no time