New to rimming

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by ShyBri, Mar 2, 2012.

  1. ShyBri

    ShyBri Guest

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    My hubby and I have been together over 8 yrs now. We have a pretty boring sex life after reading on here lately. We have done anal a few times and thats it. Ive never had a g spot orgasm. But i am getting a bit turned on about rimming. I guess both having it done to me and doing it to my husband. Although licking a hairy ass really doesnt turn me on. In fact ive never even played with my hubbys arse. But he hasnt asked me to either.

    The first time you did it how did you approach the subject??? and what was your first time like?
     
  2. cass_jenner

    cass_jenner Member

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    Well I am a male and I really like to give a little tongue to a girls ass and in my experience they absolutely LOVE it. Apart from the fact that it feels wonderful because you have many nerve endings there and it actually is a high erogenous zone, there is also something deliciously naughty about it, which helps. It really turns me on to do it. I once had a girlfriend who loved to do it to me, and it feels amazing.
    My wife would not ever consider doing it to me though I don't think :(
    Give it a go, start by rolling on your tummy and have him massage your back, then your bum, and then when he down in the area stick your bum up and make yourself available!
    Good luck and have fun.
     
  3. rollingalong

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    you dont broach the subject...you flip her around and jam your tongue up her ass till she screams with ecstacy.....talking about it is lame...it is very obvious to a dude getting close to the starfish ...if the woman is liking it she will try and manoeuvre the starfish closer to your tongue...if she is a prude she will try and move the starfish away from your tongue
     
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  5. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    well I was new to rimming til bout a year ago but yep, it's good.

    All the respondents so far seem to forget that the OP is female and as to tongueing a hairy arse, no I'm also not into that - suggest that you shave him - just around his anus - a good way to bring up and start the topic!

    I shave myself just around my anus - make a nice large oval eye with an inner eye! :) Not so hard to do with safety razors - used a mirror at first but now don't need to.

    Very sensual but vital to be 100% clean, both for health and pleasure; I always douche before any sort of anal sex.

    God luck, enjoy

    Simon :sunny:
     
  6. chili

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    I usually just give a little attention to her ass while licking her pussy, you could slip a little action in while giving a blow job as a nice treat.
     
  7. gina899

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    I absolutely LOVE having a guy rim me. First time for me was when a guy a few years older surpised me with it. I was on my hands and knees thinking he was going to fuck me doggy-style and the next thing I knew his tongue was up my ass. INSTANT orgasm! Now I really like giving as well as receiving.
     
  8. superfly123

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    When I met my current wife we dated for about 3 months before anything happened. We went out one night and got back to hers a bit drunk. Then I found that she was licking my ass and I thought wow. That's how we got started. She has a great ass and I would lick it all night long.

    We have been together over 10 years now and I get a really good rimming at least twice a week. There is nothing better than getting your ass licked by an extremely pretty horny woman. It's god damn heaven.

    You have to be clean. Just wiping your ass in the bath is pointless. You have to stick your finger up your ass and give it a good clean.

    Another good tip for the men, smoke a joint or something before hand. You think it's sensitive without it, my god you will explode in a second the first time. Then after you learn to control and really enjoy it.

    God my wife is so sexy. She can lick my ass for a long time and watching her is amazing. It's also a good idea to change positions. Standing up, bent over or on the couch with your legs hitched up. I think women in general would find that really horny. Especially with me because I am so horny and have a fantastic ass. Even if I say so myself.

    So come on guys, clean and shave your balls and ass and get your girl to lick you all over. Oh, don't forget that joint. Not sure If I should mention this, but getting ass licked until you cum is incredible. Where you place that cum is up to you.

    Think about it, a really pretty horny wife licking your ass until you are about to cum. Where would you cum?

    Good luck
     
  9. silk896

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    I've only ever done it/had it done with other women.
    It seemed just a natural extension of oral sex - you just take your tongue that little bit further.
    AS long as whoever is clean - no worries. It is extremely erotic both giving and receiving.
    ..... at least I and all the women I've been with, do.

    And despite what the naysayers preach about cleanliness/disease - I've had no little "mistakes" - just pure erotic fun.

    However also, be aware, it will not appeal to everyone.
     
  10. KingWilly

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    I love to rim my wife provided she is clean. And if it's just her normal smell that is fine, but if there's any poo residue I don't stay long. So apart from that I love doing it to her and she seems to enjoy it and occasionally it will lead to a trip down anal highway which I love.

    I don't think I'd be very receptive to her wanting to rim me though. I mean if it was something she was dying to do I guess I'd oblige her but it's nothing she's ever expressed interest in and I have no interest in pushing her.
     
  11. doty

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    To rim without worries, stretch a condom over your tongue and pour KY liquid over the anus. Then with your tongue, work the KY into the anus. You can go deep without hygiene issues. You can even pull your tongue out of the condom and insert your finger for continued stimulation. The receiver will be more relaxed because you are protected and it will be more enjoyable for both.
     
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