i have totally given bjs to a few close friends before, didnt even have to be their birthday. and i have always gotten time-stopping orgasms in return. the way i see it, its just two friends helping eachother out, no strings, no hurt feelings, just a stronger friendship, a closer bond, and a greater trust. i get that not everyone sees it the same as i do, but hey...different strokes for different folks right.
agreed. if you can find someone that it can stay as "no strings, no hurt feelings, just a stronger friendship" that's fucking amazing. but sometimes it's a bit difficult. god damn feelings!
I absolutely love to give blowjobs and do it all the time. I have given a few BD BJs without actually planning it out. It was sort of a "spur of the moment after too much to drink" thing.
I suppose you are right in that sexual relationships are best tied to romantic relationships but damned it seems such a 'nice gift'. I mean it could be something to kid about for years if you stayed friends "hey remember what you gave me for my 23rd birthday!" ...Blowjobs can be intense but they aren't anything like fucking in that they aren't as intimate. Oh well, purely the stuff for fantasy for me since I am now married although I can still hope that perhaps one day she'll engage in another great fantasy....a BD BJ from her and a female friend.
This is so much fun. I've done this for a few close guy friends. The look of shock on their faces when I offered was worth it. The look on their faces after was definitely worth it. I love going down. I say definitely do this.
I would really love to experience being given oral sex - have done for a long time but dreams are free. You just have to have the partner who's very open minded & willing to or else you can only just fantasise about it.
i don't really think it takes someone "very open minded" to give their partner a blowjob. of course, i suspect about 4 out of 5 people who claim to have given random blowjobs to their male friends are actually males fantasizing about their female friends.
Some just have their own beliefs they refuse to carry out for different reasons or just aren't oral sex inclined & prefer giving other types of pleasures instead. So you just have to accept what they are prepared to do & aren't. If you force them to do something they are totally against then you may get it done gruggingly or told to f off !
He did what he had to do. He recognized his limits and his disassociation from you was his own limitation for his own comfort level not yours. It could've been a lot worse if he had continued to try to win you over.