Extreme Lust!! What to do?

I am a dancer at a gentlemen's club, and there is a guy that works there. I found out that he is a musician (which started the liking). I am very attracted to him. However he just started a family with a woman that he is not very happy with, but he loves his new baby.

Well while at work I constantly flirt with him (half naked), and he seems to like it. I can't even focus on work cause I just want to talk to him, and I REALLY wanna take him home and take off his clothes. I have told him this in a jokingly way, and he wants to but he says he cant cause of his "situation". I just can't control myself around him. Sometimes when I'm feeling bold I play around and "molest" him and make him touch me, he goes along with it until he can't take anymore . I'm always daydreaming of him touching me, and having wet dreams of him, and I'm too shy to tell him any of this, because I think it's kind of odd to feel this way about someone who is basically taken. But I would still fuck him in a heartbeat.

I have never had these kind of feelings before...has anybody had this happen? or am I just crazy?

 

we always want what we cant have...forbidden fruit....but try and put yourself in her shoes......someday you may be the one with a child and a man and there will be a some hottie trying to take him from you and you'll wonder why she cant respect you, and your relationship...

 

You probably shouldn't slack off so much when you're working

He's probably not there to talk

 

LOL :2thumbsup:

 

I Understand what your saying... I don't want to break them up. I just have a weird attraction and it's hard to shake it off, but I will try. or just move to a different club.

 

I still makes tons of money, but Your a funny guy.. I love jokes

 

I've got an idea - what if HE is the one who is testing you to see if you are brave enough to break through the social dilemma. Then you'll just have to hook up with him and see.

 

More than likely, it will happen in her future at some point. She doesn't have to have a child underfoot at the time either.

There will always be some girl vying for a married man's attention. Married men are safe to them because they think he won't take her seriously which allows her to be more openly flirtatious.

I'm fairly sure he can bring you up on harassment charges, too if he wanted.

 

in my eyes he's already cheated on his wife by doing whats he did with you, if he can to that to his wife, he can do it to you. He is a father now, think of that child, that is the most important thing right now.

 

I think I know that routine.

 

I would rather of had my Dad be with a stripper than my mom growing up. Just sayin. Happiness trumps a regular "family unit"

 

yes, lust is a normal feeling. most people are decent enough not to try and break up a family though.

exactly, all workers should do just enough to get by.

 

Why does she have the responsibility for somebody else`s family? Also, don`t underestimate the fact that sex work and cheating might save as many families as it destroys.

 

Agreed. It's him who's going to the club in the first place.

 

Okay for every bodies information this man I speak of is NOT married!!!! no wife

 

Sexual harassment charges?? did you not read that we work in a Gentlemen's Club?? sexual harassment charges are nothing but a joke in that industry, unless rape is involved. besides he is not uncomfortable with anything i've done to him, or I wouldn't do it in the first place

 

well i make More than enough

 

Yes absolutely think of the children before yourself. Be nice and loving to all re the situation and good things will come to you. Im a great believer in what you give out you get back.

 

it's not her responsibility. just like it's not my responsibility for the success of the 7-11, but it would still be kind of a dick move for me to rob it.

when i have a job i like to do the job right. must be just me.

 

I guess so