I ruined a pan once because I started to boil potatoes and forgot about them...cooking takes finesse.
This is something that you will never understand because no one was ever there for you nor do you know what it is like to care for someone................ When you are a "parent" and your child has a problem, usually they come to "the parent" to help them out. When one of them says that their underwear is bothering them. I tell them to go to thier room and see if they put on their underwear on backwards. Everytime that was the problem so that is how I know about this. When you have two kids at the age of "5" sometimes they still need a little bit of "guidence" to help them out. But, I'm sure that you do not know what "guidence" is because it obviously shows you never had any. ~namaste~