Unprotected anal sex

Firstly
Now for my topic, I am in a straight relationship but I do like cock and wanto fuck it. My partner is good with that fact. She enjoys doing me with strap ons and the such.:sunny:
What I fantasize to experience is feling a real cock inside me and having it unload inside.
Im aware of the complications & STDs you can get with unprotected sex. But What I want to know is how has other guys gone around this to be comfortable that the person is clean & trustworthy enough??
Also are gay couples that bring in other guys trustworthy enough??

All im after is ideas or what others have done to overcome this.
Any constructive thoughts would be appreciated.

 

I have never done gay anal but was somewhat bi in college. I would say stick with friends and people you know. When you get into people you haven't known it gets sketchy, butthole or pussy.

 

well then, have unprotected anal sex with a guy you absolutely trust. meanwhile you might wanna try condoms though.

 

Well, my boyfriend had only one sexual partner before me, and they had been together for a few years, and both were virgins before they got together. When we got together I had only had sex with a few girls and never done it with guys ! We both figured it would be fine for him to bareback me from the start. I'm glad we could, because it really turns me on to have him cum inside my bum. If I wasn't as sure as I was though, we would have got him tested and used condoms till we knew !

 

DON'T TRUST ANYONE, just because someone will say they are clean they could be telling a false hood just to knock you up (impregnate you with positive semen) and yes there are guys out there who like to stealth guys

 

What kind of logic is that? They are less likely to be able to contract something if they are familiar to you? The bugs dont discriminate in that way

No one ever really gets to 'know' anyone.

Regardless of the STI a big chunk of new infections come from 'trusting' a partner, i.e one that wasnt a stranger.

HIV the mother of all STI's at the moment, in the end it comes down to risking exposure to a life altering infection for what, cos either party couldnt really be bothered with condoms, or 'trust' their partner not to get bored and play with someone elses bits

The CDC's factsheet

Data a few years old, 2009, but you'll get the picture.

A quarter of new infections occur in non drug injecting heterosexuals.

If you are a straight guy and get a new girlfriend, she's not going to tell you at the start that she use to have unprotected anal with her previous boyfriend (a boy friend you know nothing about), because she's going to worry about you thinking she might be too slutty i.e her reputation rather than actually mitigating risks.

That is gay, straight whatever, male female....whether its cheating or previous history, the reasons they arent going to tell you are about worrying about your feelings or your judgement of them first....before anything to do with risk factors.

And one of the scariest figures on that web site is that 1 in 5 dont even know they are infected, trust is irrelevant if they dont even know themselves. The bug isnt going to give a crap if its a female or male rectum, its just a whole lot easier to get in the blood system that way

The politics with HIV gets overshadowed cos you hear mostly about the stuff about gay/bi guys and ID users, but its a big fuckin deal for heteros as well, especially if the girls are going to be more into anal out of fear of getting pregnant and that kind of thing is going to get more socially acceptable.

But regardless, unprotected anal never ever, the supposed gains are nothing compared to the consequences. No ones going to give you a medal for 'trusting' your partner whilst you spend decades on the drug cocktail required to control it

 

There is not much more to add than hasn't been said already. It really is a bad risk.
Gays are a very high risk category for unprotected anal — and they stand out statistically as having the most STDs and AIDS/HIV — is that the price you want to pay for a few moments of passion from somebody you've trusted? Stay safe by using a dildo, and take on board, seriously, the terrible risk unprotected sex can expose you to.

 

All this must be a huge worry to guys that like one night stands because the more partners you have the more chance you have of contracting something nasty !

To be honest, I dont think that I could ever have a one night stand. I think that to allow another guy to breed you, and to do the stuff that my b/f does to me, is the ultimate thing one boy can allow another boy to do. I could not let a guy I dont know do that stuff to me. I wouldn't like it !

Dont get me wrong, I love sex and it's a huge part of my life now, and my b/f gives me the best time ever, but........it's not just the sex that makes it so good. It's the kisses and the cuddles and holding hands and being under the covers and him telling me how much he loves me and me telling him that I love him more. It's about the fact that I know he cares about me and did long before he was my boyfriend. It's about him looking after me and spoiling me and also about me making him laugh. We love each other.:love:

Without all of the above, I could never let him do what he does, let alone enjoy it more than anything else in my life, and that's why I know I could never have a one night stand. I guess that makes me a prude or boring or whatever, but that's just the way it is !

I've gone of topic ! Haha. Josh has been away for nearly a week now and I guess that I just miss him. Sorry guys.

 

You do get that is not a correct statement though.

Guy A Sleeps with 100 guys that have only been with one other, exposure = 200 guys.

Guy B sleeps with 1 guy thats been with 1000 who each have been with 100, exposure = 100,000


On the surface Guy A might appear sluttier runs around with a bunch of bored married guys that only do that once in a blue moon, so dont have much exposure with other guys, and paranoid about passing something on to the wife, then the wife finding out, so are always safe or dont even do anything high risk. Guy B strayed once whilst on holidays, just so happened to stray with a guy that spent the previous 10 years coked up all the time, half a dozen guys each fri/sat night 6*52*10=3120. So Guy A might seem a lot sluttier, but Guy B is the far bigger risk.

An oversimplified example, but to illustrate it has nothing to do with what they say they are, or what they actually are, it has more to do with who they get with, previous history compounding exponentially that you, they or anyone else can really have any idea about. It only takes once, and once can be worse than 100 times.

 

guys only wanna stick their tongues in my ass..

 

if u have unprotected anal sex, it might be fine at first or with one or two guys. the problem is when get used to semen inside ur ass . u'll end up addicted to semen inside u and when ur bf left u . u'll try to find anyone else even for one night stand .
young guys might find a bf or be fucked by one but when they get older and feel lonely they will just try to find any cock inside them..

 

Your choice will always be your choice. It is after all, your life.

However, there is absolutely no logical reason to go for unprotected sex, regardless of how attractive the thought may be to you personally. A person's sexual history really DOES NOT begin with you. They may not know or may not want to say? Whatever their reasons may be, you are playing Russian roulette? Little, to win and everything to lose. If this sounds like a good deal to you, well, go for it.

KD

 

Since we talking about unprotected sex, may i ask is it un polite to ask someone for their test paper, just to make sure they are not positive. Like someone you are going or planing to have sex with.

 

No, it's not impolite, you're just protecting yourself and if they get offended or refuse to provide you with recent and accurate proof that they're not a petri dish for breeding diseases, then they can fuck off

 

Well, I like my b/f cummin inside me, thats for sure. I dont think i would suffer from withdrawal symtoms if he didn't though. haha

One night stands are not for me, even if I broke up with josh, which I wont, i would not let guys fuck me. I'm not slutty. haha If I did though they would have to wear a condom.

 

I've been with a guy who demanded we both get tests, though it took a couple of weeks to get the results which might have left some room for a cheat. I didn't do anything and my blood is still clean today. If you don't have time for these tests well don't go unprotected unless you can swear your life to someone.