So I'm 25, and I've had more than my fair share of casual sex. I keep coming to the point were its not satisfying anymore. I try to be less of a man-slut, but my penis keeps playing hide and seek. I'm trying to decide if I should put more effort into willpower, or just say fuck it and get it while the gettings good. I know I'll find a meaningful connection again, but not sure of what to do in the meantime. Maybe I should have posted this somewhere else....but I thought it would be far more entertaining here GO
http://www.cracked.com/blog/the-7-most-annoying-hidden-agendas-internet/ You're doing number five right now.
I was aware that I would get this response.....and i can see why u would think that, but that's not me. Sex isn't something to brag about. A lot of people would look down on me for sleeping around. It's simply something that happens between two people. Sometimes it's beautiful, sometimes it's dirty, and sometimes it's both. Just because I wanna talk about it doesn't mean my I intention is to brag.
Oops I thought you were a girl. I'm so bad with that. Ummmmmmmmmmmm if casual sex isn't "satisfying" for you anymore, then maybe you should stop and wait for something meaningful and satisfying, but for the reason of being happy and not for simply not wanting to be a man-slut. The other thing is, too, for me, sex isn't about deciding whether or not to do it before the moment arrives. Like telling yourself "I'm going to have lots of sex" or "I'm not going to have any sex". If it feels right, do it, if it doesn't, don't. I guess it's different if you're going out with the sole intention of picking up, but if that's what you're doing it's quite obvious you enjoy your casual sex and find it satisfying enough to put in that kind of effort.
It's not that I Want to be a man slut. I never go out with the sole intention of hooking up, and rarely see it as a goal when I meet woman. In my case, I have a very high sex drive and a weak willpower. Therefore it is very rare for me to turn down sex when the opportunity arises. Even when it doesn't feel right, or I'm not even necisarily attracted to the woman. I think it's unrealistic for me to hold off sex un till I find a woman to have a true relationship. So I guess my goal should be to be more selective, and to work on my willpower. I wrote this thread because there's currently this chick who is wanting casual sex, but it doesn't "feel right." She's not ugly, but she's not the best looker either......although I know she would be fun in bed. My labido is telling me to go for it, but my brain is telling me it might not be a good idea. She's also a friend of my sisters so I think there is a chance of things getting a little weird.
actually, i think sleeping around is something that happens between one person and several other people. anyway... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZjavMEeXF4&feature=related"]Todd Rundgren Bang The Drum All Day (HQ) - YouTube
Casual sex with people you know can get messy when it ends. Unless you like having your sister ticked at you.
You must be so disappointed that this hasn't happened yet. Anyway OP, maybe you should just try to meet some more people that you are attracted to. If you want to have casual sex, go for it but it seems reasonable to try to have that casual sex with people you actually find sexy.
I know it's not you want to be a manslut.. What I meant was that the actions you take from here on out should be about trying to make you happier and more satisfyied, rather than being about trying to escape the label of "manslut".. You know what I mean?? Is it making you happy? Does casual sex make you happy? The reasons for making this thread are... what? Getting us to decide for you whether or not you should keep having sex? Why would you do that unless it wasn't making you happy - or rather, was almost causing you unhappiness? What you're saying is : High sex drive + low willpower > having sex when it "doesn't feel right" But I don't think you really care It must feel right enough to do it. OKAY the second paragraph, I understand. I don't think you should engage in casual sex with this friend of your sister. Firstly, it doesn't feel right, secondly, she's not even that hot, and thirdly, she's your sisters friend. Casual sex is casual sex... I'd say skip it and go onto (into) a sex kitten who you're really into and who doesn't know your sister. Then again.. You could bang both. It's up to you. You must want to have sex with your sisters mate if you want other people's oppinion on it I guess.. Or you just wouldn't go there.
You will regret it if you are not as much of a scoundrel as possible, I promise you. Also, don't think about taking womens advice on this. I am not being chauvinistic.
