hey guys. i'm Shayne. i really need advice from all lesbians here. i'm an asian so everyone here is not so open-minded. there's this girl named Carol. she's kind, well-mannered, blur. she's gorgeous and cute too. one day, we went out with a group of friends and soon it's just me and her alone. together. so we started chatting. and she got to know that i'm lesbian but she's okay with it. then i ask her: if there's a girl who interested in you or even try to chase you, what's your reaction? and she answered if she likes the girl then it's a yes. since then, the conversation kept replaying in my mind. i'm kinda crushing on her before this and what she said is like a signal to me...i really like her and i'm graduating soon so i wanna ask her out before confessing. but the problem is i don't know how to approach her. she's straight as far as i know and she had tons of guys chasing her. and recently, i tend to stuttered when i'm talking to her. i'm really really confused about what to do. how should i ask her out? and how should i tell her i like her? i don't wanna ruin what we have between us... i don't have many gay friends so there's no advices for this kind of situation. i really need as many advices as possible! Thank you. tiffany, a member from girls generation. i love her!
You need to ask her out to lunch , and spend more time with her , like she said if she likes the girl , its cool , if she likes you, you might stand a chance.
Yeah, I'm with erzabet on this one ^^ Ask her to lunch, get to know her better and who knows what could happen?? She already kinda told you that it wouldn't be a definate 'no' and besides, any girl who'd say those words to me, knowing I'm gay? Well... I'd actually see that as an inventation to go right ahead and sweep her off her feet
but if i just ask her alone out for lunch, wouldn't that be a little too obvious and i don't want her to know before i even admit. and where should i take her to? someplace romantic or casual?? any advice in that?
if you don't want to give it away i'd go with casual, so it's not going to be awkward and you can get to know her better
