How important is sex in your relationship?

How important is sex in your relationship?

 

I would say very important. That connection you make sexually with someone your in love with is amazing!

 

Sex is just as important as everything else in a relationship. It's a bond. And it only brings both people closer together. (Even when it's not good lol)

 

Meh. I like to smash as much as the next girl but I can live without it.

 

sadly enough i am not having any.....

 

I'm not saying that you can't live without it. I'm just saying it can keep a relationship healthy.

That's ok, neither am I.....

 

but i'm in a relationship and not having any, isnt that worst?

 

It's kinda expected in long distance relationships though.

 

It isnt so much the sex, it's two warm breasts to lay my head on. It's not my fault what happens after. >.>

 

Sex is only important when everything else is going the way it should. And without all of that, it's just sex, not a relationship

 

Um ... dunno. I can't really remember what sex involves. Does somebody get tied up? Or is it the thing with the whipped cream? Or ...

 

If and when it happens , sex aint all that important , Love and compassion and devotion are more important to me.

 

Well without the sex it just becomes a really close friendship, wifey roles are assumed and well- it isn't unpleasant but it stops being 'Living with your girlfriend' and just becomes shared accommodation and filling out council tax forms.
So sex is important.

 

So much depends on the individuals involved. In my opinion sex is no more or less important than friendship or love ... but friendship and love are essential to a healthy relationship.

 

My gf and I are going through this issue right now. I have a past with sexual abuse that has made me have issues with sex in general and I am one of those few people who can live without sex. She on the other hand says something about every other 10 minutes about the lack of sexual intimacy between us. I have tried to explain it to her the best that I can while I do not completely understand it myself but its as if shes tired of trying to understand it. I just have no want to be intimate in that way, even though it should be different because it is with her, and I can seeit is eating away at her. But I don't know what to do.

 

sex is very important in a relationship.but not the most important thing.

 

Sex and intimacy is something that I share only with my wife. It is an integral part of our bond. Unfortunately, we both don't share the same sex drive. I would like to do it everyday and she could go without for a month.

 

Absolutely sex is important, but, a couple must already have the other main components key in a relationship before sex is great. When you have great communication about day to day stuff, as well as when you can talk about sex with one another, the feeling is more intense. She knows what you like and you know what she likes. I can honestly say, in 5yrs, I have not once faked an orgasm with my wife. As far as how often, of course it has slowed down, but still at least once a week.

 

I don't know. (hetero bi-curious here) After one year with the same girl, I get tired. I can't satisfy her like I could.
I don't have a huge libido either, unfortunately. Why unfortunately ?? I'd say that sexual performance is a very important value in our society (maybe it's always been, too), so it plays on my self-esteem quite a bit.
All in all, I am not single, and I probably masturbate once every 3-4 day. Some guys do it 2 times a day !

I just noticed this was the Lesbian forum lol ! well anyway I think my view counts, and perhaps I will surprise some, for being a man with little libido. (repeat after me: "Porn fucks you up")

 

It's not super important, actually. XD Surprise, surprise, we're a young couple (16 and 17). She and I haven't had sex for months and we're still pretty strong. I do think that next time she and I are alone together we're prolly gonna end up doing it like rabbits though ^^ it's a great stress reliever and she's been going through a bad rough patch.