Can't ejaculate during intercourse with females..HELP

I love women, always have. Love sex, and have a high sex drive. However, I can't ejaculate inside a woman while having sex. This has happened with every girl ive slept with. Is this due to too much masturbation, or is my body trying to tell me I am homosexual?

 

Maybe you re just gay?

 

Your not gay. I was in the same situation as you with my girlfriend. Although I enjoy seeing cocks and fantasizing about them, I still don't consider myself to be "homosexual". Maybe Bi-curious. Although none of those things caused me to not be able to cum. The reason I could never cum during sex was frequent masturbation and porn. I know this now because I gave up porn and solo-masturbation. After only 5 days of quitting these habits, I was able to cum during sex and let me tell you it was awesome. All I think about is cumming in my girlfriend now. I didn't think quitting those things would change anything at first but boy did I get great results. Take my advice and quit those two things for a couple weeks or even up to a month before you have sex again, you'll be hurting for sex. When you have it your mind will be clearer, and you'll be able to relax (because I bet your not relaxing if the only thing your thinking about during sex is "i have to cum!"). Quitting porn specifically made me ten times more horny to see my gf naked and while thrusting (I didn't have fresh mental images of perfect built porn stars). Also when you do eventually do it after following my advice, have her do the work. I sat in a chair while she held on to a table and slammed my cock, I came after about 15-20mins. It makes it easier to relax because when you tire yourself out by humping it can add that stress again. Do what I said and let me know how it goes.

 

^^^^^^^^that ,Have you ever talked about it with your gf ? talk honestly and openly about it...Relax and take your time & don't have expectations ,there is no wrong or right when it come to sex just whatever works for the people concerned .

 

Exactly. I told my girlfriend from the start about my problem and why i thought it was happening. She was very understanding and we worked through it together, which actually made us closer (especially after the results i got!). Without communication you won't get far, so just open up and talk about it.

 

Can u get it up does it feel good maybe ur worried about getting her preggers have u fucked guys before ?

 

Those also applied to me when I couldn't cum. After quitting porn/masturbation those worries seem to go away due to the fact that your dying to have sex lol.

 

I think watching porn and masturbating frequently is likely to be the reason for your dilemma.
I would like to add that i have a similar problem with getting erect without having to masturbate to get it up and keeping it up. It might be erectile dysfunction but I think watching too much porn and masturbation is also to blame. I agree with the points raised by msn441 who has given some excellent advice.

 

Hello

I also sometimes cannot ejaculate inside my girlfriend. The reason could be intensive porn watching and masturbation. In other hand I am bisexual hence sometimes just need a cock not a pussy

But I am not sexually active with other males so gay porn and masturbation is the only solution in that case

 

sounds like time you got active Pablo

Simon :sunny: