Condom for anal sex or not!

My girlfriend and I are planning on trying anal sex. I always do my research about anything, but all I can seem to find is CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS. Like.. no. I don't want to use a condom. It doesn't feel the same.
It says "use a condom to protect from STD's". What if we both don't have STD's? STD's don't just form out of thin air, so we're safe from that. But then there's that "bacteria in the anus" that can cause urinary tract infections. If she takes a shower and cleans her anus with soap and water, is that alright? Or is it for everytime you do anal sex you have to douche for half an hour and clean out every bit of bacteria.. -.-?
Please spare me the "she might have STD's". Iv'e been with her since we were both 17, and we were eachother's first KISS, let alone first sexual partner. So no, neither of us have any form of std!

Thanks for the tips and help!

 

You probably know a lot of ppl like I do that do it without condoms and dont have any issues yeah? Most of them dont do all that douching stuff either. Thats enough to satisfy me. Like anything theres a risk. If you get a UTI.. bad luck man. I think you should be alright though.

 

two words. "poop noodle". I would recommend a condom. This is the only exception in my book

 

Have her take a shower beforehand and you take one afterwards. You'll have a good chance of being fine. Condoms are awful.

 

Given that you are in a committed relationship...

If you can avoid it.... no. They suck.

 

Just get her to clean before, we never use a condom

 

If you believe in "poop noodle" you have either never ejaculated or are a total fucking moron. The muscle contractions that lead you to ejaculate will push out any fecal matter that gets up there. I have a problem with spermacide back up in my eurethra (Trust me it happens and it stings like a motherfucker. I've gotten soap up there too and it stings like a motherfucker every time you piss for days.) I just got out of a five year commited realtionship that was mostly oral and anal 4 of those years were bareback never had a problem with infections or "Poop Noodle". Use a good lube (if going bareback I like Olive Oil) and you have nothing to worry about.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

Bareback anal is awesome, especially if she sucks it straight out of her ass. Use enemas to alleviate any fecal fears and you two can have a great time.

 

My wife and I never use condoms unless it's on a toy we share

 

You can buy lubed condoms. Much better and dont make yo dick smell

 

Sorry to "bum" everyone out (especially myself because I'm certainly not a condom fan (although I'm a strong supporter, for obvious reasons)), but......

A new discovery out there in medical circles links anal sex and anal cancer (HPV can cause anal cancer although actual incidence is very low). However, with the greatly increased popularity of anal sex (it's probably quite common now for many people (indict internet porn)), I think the medical establishment is anticipating seeing an increase in anal cancer in the coming years. It's very much a bummer because I'm a fan of buttfucking for sure and especially without a condom. I'll probably have to rethink my attitudes about it though.

 

If you know you are both STD free than I don't think there's much point to a condom unless she's really dirty down there. Otherwise I'd not be having sex with the person Anal or otherwise.

 

I like the guy to use a condom because if you stick it in her butt, you shouldn't take it out and put it in her pussy because that could give her a serious infection. So using the condom for anal sex is good because you can take it off if you wanted to have vaginal sex afterward.
or you could just do anal after...i dunno just my opinion.

 

Wow amazing replies!!! I thank you all so much! I'll take into consideration about the cancer thing. I mean I love this girl more than anything and my goal is life with her so... Fuck cancer. But I guess in moderation. Thank you guys for the info, I really needed that personal touch to make up my mind.

 

Actually, I was watching a programme on BBC TV last week on this very subject, but regarding getting HPV through Oral Sex, leading to Mouth Cancer.

Anyone in the UK should be able to see the programmes on iPlayer for a while here http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00xhdzl although the pagees are probably inaccessible to users outside the UK.

 

If neither of you have HPV I'm not sure I see the issue either with oral or anal.

 

My husband and I enjoy anal a few times a month. I REQUIRE that I prepare beforehand. Okay, that means I want to flush my rear. After that we do it without a condom.

Maybe others feel differently, but if I don't flush I find the smell offensive and there are the occasional traces of poop. :ack2: I'm not trying to be gross, but it's a fact.

Anyhow, that's my opinion.

 

Condoms? Dont do it bro!

 

My wife and i have regular anal sex and we never use condoms. Once she had a urine infection because i was going back and forth from butt to pussy.

 

The only reason for a condom is if there's a chance of STDs. If you know that you are both clean, then why wear socks in the shower?