I'm so paranoid about my breasts

I'm 37..I've been seeing a guy who's 26. I'm totally into him, he's coming around for sex but I have had a couple of kids and my stomach isn't completley flat, it's toned but if I'm on all fours there's loose skin there. What I'm even more worried about that my breasts will be a deal breaker. They're not that big but they sag! My nipples are still straight they're not facing down but they kinda look deflated. I'd hate to really put him off guys please I need your imput am I best just to not tell him and not bother getting him to come around? They do sag and they're nothing like the perky round boob jobs

 

Go for it. Either it works out, or he proves himself too shallow to be worth the trouble.

 

Don't worry about it girl! The sexiest thing a woman can have is confidence. He's obviously already into you, so don't think because you don't have a 17 year old body anymore hes not going to find you attractive. I bet you a hundred bucks he will!

Stop worrying and go for it

P.s. Real boobs are better boobs!

 

awsome, I guess it's worth a try..I just don't want him to look at them and go nup I can't do it, I fucking hate them but if I know he would deal with them I wouldn't make an issue of it in fact I'm prepared to give him the best damn bj of his life. I've considered telling him I'm paranoid about them first though. Do you think I should??

 

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...but seriously guys, while I appreciate your answers, if there is anyone that reads this and feels reluctant to comment given the positive responses and you feel differently do comment. I want answers from everyone. We are all different and have different opinions so it's ok to do that too. I'm a little concerned this guy might judge me though he's really hot and I know girls like him, he can come accross as immature so it's hard to tell how he's going to react

 

if he judges you for something like that why do you even want to be with him?

 

He told me being with someone older wouldn't hurt and he'd like me to teach him a thing or two.. he's then started to plan how we will catch up. It's my only issue, if my boobs were lifted I'd be happy. He has big hands and long fingers, would have been nice to have something big enough to really fill his hands up with

 

Nope.

Be yourself. Have fun!

Don't point to things about yourself that you don't think he'll like.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7RRLC5slLo&feature=related"]KC and the Sunshine Band - Get Down Tonight (1975) - YouTube

 

As long as you`re body is natural, that should be all that matters. Aging is a part of life & if he can`t except that then what is the point of him getting any lovin`? haha, don`t sweat sweetheart. ;D

 

dont worry about

maybe he has a really small penis and everything will even out

 

Here's my advice. Start making out with him. Only kissing him. Don't even take off your or his clothes. Unzip his fly and give him the blowjob of his fucking life. Do this a couple of times then show off that smokin' hot bod I know that you have and if he doesn't like it then quasi-blackmail him. If that doesn't work kick him to the curb cause your tits are fucking balls out!!!!

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

They're usually just happy you have them. I was a "bit" older than my previous bf (41/28) and he adored mine... (38F, 3 kids, gravity). Relax... if he's dated any other "older" women, he has an idea what to expect and maybe that's what he likes...

 

I would kiss, suck and adore your boobs while swirling my thumb gentle over your magnificent clitoris. And, if he wouldn't do the same you ought to dump him.

 

If he has any class,he'll treat those babies like they should be treated. That is,with tender loving care.

 

i'd say it just depends on what kind of guy he is

 

don't mention it before hand. that will just draw more attention to it, and like someone said, confidence is sexy. so naturally un-confidence is a bit of a turn off

i guarantee they aren't as "bad" as you think.

 

Confidence was mentioned several times in response to your question, and I also think it's key in a lot of sexual attraction- but specifically when paring younger men and older women. You obviously have a lot to offer him, and he's clearly attracted to you. So remember that and be comfortable in your own skin. :2thumbsup: