"I wouldn't want just ANYBODY looking at me"

So while imbibing some adult beverages I overheard this conversation among a group of girls and guys, and it made me think.

Someone brought up the subject of a nude beach. A lively discussion ensued, and one of the ladies (though I use the term loosely) said something to the tune of this:

"I wouldn't want just ANYBODY looking at me naked. Why would I want some old or ugly perv checking me out?"

Now the girl in question was quite attractive, and wore pretty revealing attire, so I'd assume that she's comfortable with her body - not a terribly difficult thing to do for an attractive person, I guess. I thought about what she said though and she had a point. I am universally considered VERY unattractive (verging on repulsive in fact, I learned to live with it). And outside of paying for nudity (in a strip club) or paying for sex, I wouldn't ever see anyone as attractive as her naked. In fact, a visit to a nude beach constitutes a "free shortcut" for someone like myself.

Granted, most US nude beaches these days are populated with aging swingers, but every so often an exception comes along. If you are one of those exceptions (that is, female and generally regarded as attractive), does the said "free shortcut" bother you at all? After all, if you were to encounter me or someone like me, you would probably don a parka in a 100 degree heat before willingly revealing your body...

 

maybe she should eat some makeup, so she can be pretty on the inside too..

 

Olgeird,
Pretty girls will turn heads with or without clothes, but only rude people drag it out into a stare. When she said "look", she must have meant "stare" because everyone glances at everyone else all the time (unless you are blind).

I hope she's not one of these narcissistic types who assumes that she is always the center of attention. That gets old real quick no matter how pretty she is.

As for your own looks, maybe your looks are unconventional, but there seems to be a perfect match for someone somewhere. If Shreck the Ogre can find a mate, then you and I can too! Even his ugly donkey found a mate!

As for old folks at nude beaches, there may be more than at textile beaches, but I saw a fair number of young people too. Florida has lots of senior citizens all over the place and nude beaches are no exception.

As for swingers, not sure what you mean. The nudists generally don't tolerate too much public fooling around. They call the cops on that stuff. And what goes on in private is anyone's guess.

 

I know of a few women that have that attitude ("I don't want just anyone looking at me!"), and the good news is.... they won't be! Some of those women are so fugly you could put a gun to a pervs head and tell him "look at her body, NOW!" and he'll be crying and begging you "please! Stop! Just pull the trigger! Just pull the trigger!"

 

dude you cant be that bad, and logan i've met a lot of not so attractive women like that too. nothing is funnier than that. and dont even bother w/ the nude beaches just sounds wrong 100%. maybe a quick 2 min sprint lol but that's it