well love and sexual satisfaction are two different things> you do not need the one to get to the other one, but i think that the question of the posts just talks about sexual satisfaction in general. And therefore i judge it clearly speaking about sexual satisfaction, don't misunderstand me i would never judge relationships or people according to that... As for the rest of the post, we tend to speak differently due to different experiences... my first boyfriend was small in size and i can not say that i was satisfied by his performance because despite being in love with him after the few first times, i was feeling nothing down there and you know...totally boring...so this is why i say that size does matter because anatomy is anatomy, and it does not change. on the other hand it had some convenience in anal sex and i was comfortable with him in that> my latest is of a very good size but anal again despite the preparations and bla bla bla is very painful with him and we sorted out ways so that i could respond better to that...again this is not his fault, not mine, that's anatomy, no matter what we do there it can be helped that much....again anatomy is anatomy... and yes i agree that in women orgasm and sexual arousal is more than a mental state but because we narrow down the topic in men and their sizes, i think that it does matter concerning them as they are the main subject. Plus that mental state (for women) has its defaux because when it ends (like in being in love or when admiring someone or you interests or kicks change, again you need anatomy to hold you in place or you wont get a satisfaction since that "mental state" ceases to exist). I get what you mean but the argument to that is that this "mental" does not last forever...or the supplements and the alternatives or anything that you might use to "fill in the blank" won't last as much and eventually you might ( I mean "you" in general) lose interest. and another additional point is that since there are women for whom the size does count (either they prefer it big or small) then why are we saying that it does not? because just the existence of the few that say "yes it counts" in reality is the answer that yes it does count. Otherwise is just like ignoring them and overviewing their opinion. and the line "I like small it so it does not count" is also contradictory in a sense ( i say that too general)...because from the moment that you show preference, it is the same thing> size matters... as for the way of using it and the confidence that was mentioned before i agree but from a size and down...i do not know how much all the additions can help to a woman's satisfaction that much. Meaning if i need dildos, extra foreplay and all kama-sutra recommendations to see an orgasm..i suddenly lose the focus.
^^^yes, we thinking somewhat different perhaps, although i agree with almost all of what you say... from my own experience... admittedly, different penis size might effect the "style" of sex, but it doesn't necessarily detract from sexual satisfaction... thats all i meant...
it is important in some aspects, but everyine has their own opinions on whats important, in a loving relationship it can be important or its not important, you can't tell if people find it important unless you ask but if dont focus on it you'll meet someone who doesnt care about size, not everone cares about size
