Penetration hurts without stimulation

My wife has a painful experience if we have sex (Penetration) without using a toy on her clit. Even when she's drunk (Relaxed), it still won't go in without hurting her. Anyone else have this experience or advice? Thanks!

 

i'm assuming you mean you have to toy her clit first? i can't imagine how it would make a difference if they were simultaneous.

 

Most women need a lot of foreplay (mental and physical), to be ready for penetration of any sort.

 

Yeah, do you mean it hurts if you try to put it in straight away without playing with her clit/fingering her first? Friend of mine had a sore member for days trying that, damn near tore his foreskin on entry.

 

Have you done enough foreplay to get her wet? Sounds like you are rushing things. Maybe you need to use some lube.

 

She could have a thing called dyspareunia, which essentially means pain during sex. It has all kinds of reasons, usually the cause is she isn't wet enough.

 

Never had this problem
But, why a toy? Tried with your hands ? Penis? Tongue ?