hi, i just joined this forum.. i hope this is the spot to do this, i am a teenage boy and i am really confused on my sexuality. i know i like guys. but im not sure if i like girls too. ive had several girlfriends and it seems to always end with me breaking up with them. i have been noticing i have been liking guys since the beggining of highshool. i find guys sexually attractive, hot and i like them emotionally too. but with girls i find them hot. but not sexually attractive at all. although i do seem to like girls more than guys. i guess what i am trying to say is, if anyone has any ideas if i am gay? or bi?
the thing about that is i dont know if i would ever want to have anal sex with a guy, i would definatly fool around but i dont know if i would have sex..
if you find guys sexually attractive and girls not, you're gay. it's as simple as that. you don't need a kiss or a fuck to discover which gender you're attracted to. you know what you are. i knew i liked guys long before i ever kissed a guy or even fucked one. never been confused about it, never had any 'what if's. my homosexuality was as obvious to me as my dark gray eyes. don't know how anyone can be confused about such a thing...
i am conused, because i like girls uhm, emotionally i guess ... i still get 'crushes' on them but i doesnt last long i normally end up not liking then anymore
well, i hope you figure it out. with time it'll probably get a lot more clearer. i can't help you any more than that since i've never experienced what you describe. i am physically, emotionally, mentally, however else 100% attracted to men. there's no disparity to it. btw, is it that polar for you? don't you feel any kind of emotional connection to guys at all? maybe you just haven't met the right guy. or something. i like men, but not every man. i don't feel attracted to every guy, only certain someones. and i've also connected emotionally or mentally i guess with a couple of females during my lifetime so far. but it's been clear to me that what that was was a friendship, nothing more; i didn't want anything more. aren't you confusing that? maybe you connect with girls so well that you think there should be something more to it. but since there isn't it's just what it is--a friendship.
i'm having the same problem..i find girls really attractive and honestly have a hard time not staring. but i love men. i know i want to have sex with a girl...but i dont think i want to be in a relationship with one. maybe its just a sexual thing? i dont know.
Just the right words Maridianwest.... Your young and in time you will experience when ready to see which sexuality your most comfortable and satifying with. Maybe your just really comfortable with women so much that your misplacing as attractive....
