I'm 41 and I can see that men of my same age or older feel more attracted by younger women than me!Even though I don't think to be a "cougar" (I hate that word) I started having a look at an online dating website called hipforums.com since a friend of mine have suggested me and I'm actually in touch with a 24 years old guy!We are having such a fun together and even though the age gap, he makes me feel younger than older men whom actually prefer 18s girls do!I've widely improved my self-awareness with him!!!I can say aloud now:I'm only 41, I'm not so old LOL!!!))Btw my resolutions for 2012 is not to find my truelove as I guess I've already found it, I just need to find the courage to introduce him to my family!!!I'm sure they will not accept that he is 17 years younger than me!How can I manage this?How can I face up with their ancient ideas?Any advice?I also got a big problem!!!My biological watch is going on but he doesn't want any children for the time being...xx
You know that it would be foolish for your plan assume that he change his mind. You need to either turn off your bio alarm clock or learn to ignore it or find someone who wants to be a father.
if you think having a child with a dude that is 17 yrs younger than you is smart?.. do the math...have a kid you-42 him-25 in 30 years do you actually think a dude that is 55 in going to go down on his 72 yr old wife for free?...no fucking way...you are dreaming..
Advice? Grow a pair finally! You're 41 and still afraid what mom & dad will say? Get a life. Why must it always be about this friggin biological clock? Are you only half a himan being if you didn't have kids? This planet is already crowded enough. Oh, and ... what Rolling said.
In 30 years, he might be dead or confined to a wheelchair. No one knows what the future brings. You can't live your life by actuarial averages.
I think that its normal that your biological clock ticks (if it is not late already) and I think that its also normal that he does not want any children right now...he is too young, and do not forget that he is a male, in order to be happy he needs to arrange his own issues (career, work, house) and then take such a responsibility such as a baby and a wife that he has to support. I am telling you these that you must know already but i read your post and i understand that you are in love (not the best time around to make decisions for a lifetime). So my advice is take it slowly and put some priorities, if your first priority is to have fun in your life, just enjoy it the way it is now and put your thoughts aside for now. Live today and also do not care what the others shall say (who says that if they were not in your position they would not do the same despite ALL perceptions?) if however you want to be a mother and have a family then this is a whole new chapter that i would say that your current lifestyle does not support. My opinion is not complicate the two because they are different in your case.
making one decision based on a definite outcome is by no means living your life by actuarial averages..i 'm not going down on an insurance company...i'm going down on my wife....i'm basing this on the fact i am 52...i love pussy...i love to eat pussy ...but no way i am heading down to the bingo to pick up some old bag that hangs out with my mom. lol///you got me you fucker..
This isn't a discussion about you though. This young man may not even reach his 50s, or may weigh 600 pounds and be confined to a wheelchair or have a tracheotomy and speak out of his neck by that time. Who's to say which one will be more healthy 30 years from now? If they're in love, go for it.
so thinking ahead is not needed in your world ? ...to what extent?...do you buy groceries?.....do you make appointments or own a fucking calendar?......do you budget your finances or just blow yer dough because anything can happen,right?.................dude....you are preaching to the devil...i love younger pussy...i absolutely do not attempt to get with any woman my age....i dread the day i lose the ability and means to have younger pussy......this op is dreaming...in fucking lala land...her best move here is to fuck this dude and milk him until one of them trades up.....it takes a demi moore to pull this kinda shit off....in other words....one in a fucking million
^ Not even. Even Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher split. I'm not saying age gaps that big can't work, but it's not common from what I've seen. To be fair to both genders though, it seems to me that 2 decades can even be a challenge for older guys and younger girls.
You've found your fountain of youth, who cares what your family of other thnk right? they are not going to fulfull that part of yourself that he fulfills, we all want to feel beautiful and young and when aman brings us that, e want to give the the world. i get it, but time to step to reality, i thinkifyou like this guy and he likes you this could work if you dont have unrealistic expectations, know what you're getting into so you don't go all crazy later trying to change the man and trying to push children on him. Accept things for what they are and keep it real age gap shouldnt be a problem. Let me just add though that there is a 10 year gap between my husband and i and it works great for us...we do have our difficulties but age is at the heart
