Looking in this forum, i discover that a lot of people enjoy spanking. I came up with a lot of questions and because it can take me like a month to cover all of these just by reading, i thought to ask and get different opinions. 1. what do you enjoy example what do you enjoy? the feeling afterwards? the pain? the sense of submission or dominance? 2. how did you discovered that you liked it and how did you express that to your partner? were you embarrassed that this can be misunderstood? 3. what differentiates an erotic from a discipline spanking that i recently came across? i mean in action...is it supposed to be more light? do you enjoy both types? I apologize if you discussed these matters before but there are tones of different things that have sparked my curiosity on the subject.
1) I mostly like the feeling at the time. It's intense. I also like the sense of being at my lover's mercy. I know she loves me, and I love her. 2) I've only done this a few times with my partner. It's hard to be honest with her. I've done it more with myself. 3) I only do erotic spanking, and I don't personally like the S&M aspect. I think it's possible to separate these.
I think it is different for all. My wife loves to be restrained and out of control and the spanking element adds to it. it isnt about pain but being made to submit that turns her on and that she has no say in it. She also likes to be lightly spanked as she approaches orgasm to increase the blood flow and intensity of her orgasm.
I love seeing my wife naked, bent over as I spank her ass. The sound and the redness is amazing, I also love to see other men spank her then fuck her. It is such a turn on to fuck her when she has a red ass and the hand prints of another man on her.
1. what do you enjoy? the feeling afterwards? the pain? the sense of submission or dominance? - The sense of submission. <3 2. how did you discovered that you liked it and how did you express that to your partner? were you embarrassed that this can be misunderstood? - Discovered it through porn. And I just straight up told my fiance that I like it and wanted him to spank me. 3. what differentiates an erotic from a discipline spanking that i recently came across? i mean in action...is it supposed to be more light? do you enjoy both types? - Erotic is usually light and playful on my end. It turns me on, but not as much as discipline spankings. Thanks to Dorothy Spencer, we were introduced to the lifestyle of discipline spankings and we enjoy the hell out of that shit!
1. what do you enjoy example what do you enjoy? the feeling afterwards? the pain? the sense of submission or dominance? I enjoy all of the above and everything else about spanking. The pain, the sounds, the sensations, the emotions, the submission, the domination, all of it drives me wild. 2. how did you discovered that you liked it and how did you express that to your partner? were you embarrassed that this can be misunderstood? I started getting excited thinking about spankings outside a disciplinary setting as a young girl, and I began to enjoy seeing others take it. I self spanked to experiment and had mind blowing orgasms and it snowballed from there. No "partner" so to speak early on, I was little, but over the years it has been easy to express, saying "spank my ass" has proven very effective. I have never been embarrassed about any of it, and I am not quite sure of the context you mean for any misunderstandings. It is pretty straight forward to me. 3. what differentiates an erotic from a discipline spanking that i recently came across? i mean in action...is it supposed to be more light? do you enjoy both types? One is for punishment and discipline and one is sexual, just like the name implies. Some people may define one as harder than the other but that is not what makes it so, it is the intent and the response. Some people have an overlap between the two, others do not. My disciplinary spankings are hard and severe, most people would say abusive but that is a relative concept and they are in fact not. I get no pleasure whatsoever from them, they are about punishment exclusively. My erotic spankings are even more brutal actually, unless the guy/girl is unwilling to push my limits. The more pain I am in the more I want, and I go all out into tit and pussy and full body whipping, even extreme sexual torture. That is just my thing, a good session leaves me in pain and with vicious marks to get myself off to for days afterward, and I love every second of it.
