The reason I ask this is I've only EVER had feelings for ONE Girl. Im a Dancer so Im with Girls ALL the time but I havnt really had any attraction to them. Though, they are my Company Girls so they are like Family. But still. Only ONE Girl and Im CONSTENTLY with Girls. And the only GirlI have had feelings for lives to far away for me to do anything about it. Im just wondering. :juggle:
Only you can determine whether or not you are a lesbian. I know that is not the answer you want because I have been where you are. Well not exactly, I only had attractions for females and I was in denial for 4 years and came out in August. I asked others if they thought I was a lesbian but I came to terms that only I can have a say. I am a lesbian and proud Anyways here are some questions you should ask yourself to help... 1. Are you physically attracted to women? 2. Are you physically attracted to men? 3. Would you have sex with a woman? 4. Would you have sex with a man? 5. Do women turn you on? 6. Do men turn you on? 7. What gender do you see yourself settling down with? ...just to help you start thinking and helping you
Sometimes I wonder that myself. I feel in love with a girl at first sight. Before her, I was strictly about the penis, dick, cock or whatever your term for it. I was even engaged. Somehow for whatever reason, she stayed in the back of my mind for a long time. I finally got the courage to speak to her and we have been together ever since. I have never felt happier or more loved. I want to settle down with her, not any woman or a woman, her. The more I am with her, the more I notice things about myself. When I reflect on my past, I notice I did several questionable things that possibly hinted at lezzy. For instance, I loved to play with my bestie tits, stared at girl's ass longer than men, wanted to visit female strip clubs. And a part of me wanted to know if I could eat pussy well. My friends (bi, gay, lezzy, straight, even my gf) joke with me now, saying I'm the gayest girl they know. But I don't really consider myself a lezzy. I don't consider myself anything but human. I like what I like and love who I love. :love:
Interesting...I have wondered this about myself in the last 8 months. I am 55 years old and until 8 months ago considered myself straight. Eight months ago I found my Best girlfriend from Grade 8 and after 43 years of being apart...our love for each other has reignited. She has lived her life as a lesbian...never been with a man. She is 4 hours away from me and in another country. We see each other about every 2 weeks and have plans of being together. I have adult children and grandchildren. My family has been very supportive. I truly love the person she is...wouldn't matter what the body was. I love her...and love when we share that love together. So does this make me lesbian?
