My first boyfriend and I lost our virginities to each other. We where a couple for 5 entire years; and it was really wonderful until it did not work out any more. Then I had 2 brief one night stands; I guess that was ok. THEN I met a guy; I knew from the beginning that he had a lot more sexual experience, and with various girls. Having sex was no problem at all, but very often, at home in my bed, at night, I could not stop thinking about all the other girls he must have slept with. I started to think, that most of them probably where prettier, skinnier, more interesting etc. It tearing me apart; whenever I´m kinda into a guy now all I can think of are all the other girls! I´m so used being in a relationship and knowing my boyfriend will only have sex with me. Now that security is gone, and I cant handle it. I want to stop comparing myself with other, and I want to stop putting so much effort into thinking of other girls getting fucked by a guy I like. How can I stop this? Will it go away after a while? Should I consider therapy, I mean, this problem is probably mostly about my low self esteem. Yet I feel, no matter how skinny I get, I will never stop thinking like this...
Listen--I sympathize,but if you knew how much men go thru this type of stuff because dicks are differant sizes--------just be as open and good at sex as you possibly can be--and don't worry yourself about it. We can't have virgins every time we have sex.There--did that help?
I think you should a disagree with scratcho. I think that the first thing is to improve your self esteem, then try to find a guy who is worth lavishing great sex on, rather than giving the guy that you are with great sex
Hey, the guy must be attracted to you in some sort of physically and emotional way. So you must be pretty to him. You are the one in bed with him...and not those other women he was with.
