Hey Everyone, thought l would post and see if anyone else feels the same way as l do. I have been texting with this girl a couple times a week or more for 5 months, as much as l like her and would like to get to know her it's almost becoming a turn off. It's getting to the point where l may just say call me or call me when you want to get together and do something in person! We both are very busy and she always mentions she wants to get together but things always don't follow through....even as a friend l do make time at some point, l do like seeing someone and their smile. Anyone else have someone like this, and did you do something about it?
I say make solid plans with her. Call her up, instead of waiting for her. Show her you're interested or else it may never go anywhere. Personally, I like texting as a beginning thing. But after a while I'd want to at least know the person's voice too. So I know where your coming from. But sometimes the only way you can actually see the person is through webchat or something which actually sucks. Cause it makes you want to be right next to them. You're lucky you're close enough to be able to even make plans to see her I envy you. haha
I totally agree, you should tell her about this You should be happy that you at least get a text, all i get is a email
thanks everyone! l agree with texting is a great way to get to know someone, but when we are within 40 minutes of seeing each other for a coffee or whatever l believe it's time to lay in on the line. I have noticed since l've starting dating women l am seeing a lot more of this texting and being friends for a long time before actualy dating? Sorry to hear some of you girls are so far away you can't even see each other in person, l don't think l could do that!
I hate it so much My girlfriend is in Texas and I am in Pennsylvania...We text everyday though and every 2 or 3 days talk on the phone for an hour...It is really hard but I love her so much that I wont let distance ruin the best thing that has happened to me!
So if l try to make plans one last time and let's say she breaks them again. How do l break off texting? do l just be honest and tell her texting is nice but l want more, or do l just not reply back and she will get the hint? She is a good person so l really don't want to upset her. I haven't never been in a texting friendship or whatever you wanna call it, l need some help?
Sorry. Just been told I'm not allowed to talk to anyone on here. Please accept my apologies,t'was a genuine mistake.
alright ladies, one more try then that's it! lol...will ask her to do something this week or weekend. Why is it l always want the ones l can't get and the ones who come l don't want? always liked a challenge thanks for all the replies, l will let ya know what happens...
lol okay, but I don't think that's a challenge. You'll find someone better! I guarantee. If she can't make time to meet you, then she's missing out. Move on.
awwww thanks dreamsdocometrue!!, l am a big hearted person and l do find it hard to break things off with people. I just have to be honest with her and see where the cards lay. I will be her friend but l do think the texting has to slow way down and get on with other things
If you want to carry on a relationship with her then tell her how you feel. If you just want to throw the towel in, ignore her.
