Girls, what do you think of guys masturbating or watching porn?

Watch them to do it? it depends, do i get to participate somewhere or am i just suppose to watch? if its just the latest, no its gets me bored :juggle:

 

:iagree: ladies know how to treat a lady

 

If women did a better job of communicating what they wanted sexually.....and men did a better job of listening when they did.... We would all know how to treat a lady...

 

what of the dreaded lesbian bed death?? :mickey:

 

what do women want sexually?

 

You'd have to ask or listen to the woman concerned... Everyone is different...

 

no no maybe the man has a point here?? maybe us ladies should answer this question, we may be more alike than we all think, funnily enough alot of men think women share EVERYTHING!.. thats not technically true, yes we gossip, talk about men and sex too BUT i cant personally say that i tell my female friends what i like to be done to me in bed its more talking about the man sorry lads but we do :daisy: and i cant say any of my friends even my best friend have ever told me what they like (apart from 1 friend coz we kinda get it on anyway lol) so as i say if most women are like myself in that respect then no one would know if the majority of us like the same things... maybe we should start here....i will answer first

as a woman i like to be concentrated on by my man, i dont like quick sex if im honest it hurts and i never cum its pointless, is that just me??

the biggest turn on for me is being kissed all over by him slowly using his hands to caress me as he doing it, it send shivers down my spine and makes me feel like im the sexiest thing in the world and he knows it, as soon as i feel like that he knows the sex is gonna be good

i like him to go down on me before hand but not always make me cum sometimes i like to be brought right to the edge then make him stop and ride him silly it feels amazing (good tip girls if u aint tried it) i also like him to dominate, not hurt me but kinda throw me around and tell me im his dirty bitch or slut, that really gets me going even though im not LOL.

 

If it's perceived as more exciting, it obviously IS more exciting, as excitement is a perception of the excited individual.

If girls don't like porn being so important, all I have to say is put out. Us guys grow up watching porn because the girls our age are too christian (or otherwise crazy) to have sex, and so yes, deep ties with porn and with watching and images of sex form for some of us.

 

i do.

women moan about this sort of thing all the time

but the truth is in the science.

if you want a man to experience an orgasm

we all know how to achieve it - but

what does that have to do with his personal preference??

nothing.

some men may have simple tastes

some may like banging upside down nuns in the butt.

point is - women are all the same

the question was sarcastic

what do women want sexually??

the female orgasm is still not completely understood

thus

what the hell does a lesbian really know that another may not?

so remember;

it may be rather moot

as to what a particular women likes or does not like

for there is science behind an orgasm - ultimately

it is merely the strength of orgasm that may be altered by the aforementioned preference.

 

It's just normal, even healthy. I wouldn't think of preventing a guy from doing so, if anything i'm happy that they have fun.
(Of course if that's all he does and he never touches me then yea that would be an issue, but thats not what we're talking about here..)

In conclusion, having an orgasm is awesome.

 

i concur

 

No issues with it, but personally if I have a boyfriend I wouldn't like it if he watched porn since he is with me.

 

So only guys that are not getting pussy watch porn? False.
I'm adventurous in the bedroom, have a stupidly high sex drive, give my boyfriend everythinh he could want sexually but he still sometimes watches porn. I cant give out any more than I do.

 

This!!!! :2thumbsup:

I don't mind one bit if he does it, as I do it sometimes too.

 

good point....my girfriend watches at least as much and probably more porn than i do. she leaves me notes on the computer desk telling me she had her feet propped up there half the night going at herself and made herself cum 8 times.lol.....but i cant ever remember either of us telling the other one "no" when it came to sex, and we have sex most every night,,...so who cares about who watches porn as long as you're taking care of each other. right?

 

I find a lot of porn really anti-feminist.
It's fake and stupid.

I dunno... there's nothing wrong with masturbating.
If I need something to masturbate to, then I'm fine with some erotic literature. So much more artsy

 

Agree. And it's so much better to be open about it and share these feelings and experiences with each other, because other wise, your partner will likely be doing it without discussing it with you. And what a shame it would be to build walls in a relationship when there needs to be none.

 

i find a lot of porn really pro-octopus.

i haven't really seen any porn that addresses feminism, but since most feminists are pretty much completely out of touch with reality, i do see feminism as pretty good fodder for parody.

 

absolutely...communication is the key to everything in a relationship. My girl and i have done a few wild things together...and they always turn out great because we've talked about it,... every single detail. We discuss whats ok and what may be painful emotionally. The most important thing is to be HONEST when you talk. Let down your walls and insecurities and trust your partner with with your heart. When you do, the sexual doors that open can be amazing!!

 

So, that begs the question, Charliemarie and Shygrly....

what would one google to find something that women would find appealing? What vids do you two watch?