How to ask women for sex

How do you go about asking for casual sex without making an arse of yourself? Would you limit it to strangers or have you propositioned colleagues, neighbours?

pray tell.. any one have the "knack"..? :2thumbsup:

 

You can say spread em a hundred ways, it all depends on the situation and whether the girl thinks you made an ass out of yourself. You will either get lucky or you won't, live and learn. Get slapped or get lucky. Good luck.

 

i think the knack would be knowing "who" to ask, rather than "how" to ask....lol

 

as freinds have said above, it depends on "whome" to know "how",, still ,, i am wondering why girls keep making some barriers in front of us , since we share the same ultimate desire for sexual desire , thx

 

That's your barrier problems bro not mine

 

hey my freind ,,, i see i will find you wherever i go,, thats nice for a comembert fan lol

well it is not about barriers as it is written,, i mean, some girls, they want you , but they just want it to be more hard to get them lol ,,, somtimes it is good, other times when you are not in a good mood ,, it is just wasting a good chance to share that pleasure ,,, by the way,, are you a boy or girl or alian ? loool

 

find a garishly dressed woman standing on a street corner at night and ask her "how much for a sucky sucky?"

 

i think the big problem there is the inner conflict that i believe most women have....and i think its mostly caused by us guys. You see, the problem is we are both fathers, and lovers...when we are "fathers", we expect our daughters to be sweet, and pure and angelic. We teach them about virtue and morals and not being "a bad girl". Then we go look for a wife that's a sexual wild thing...the problem being that every woman is some fathers daughter, taught all about "respectful" (boring) sex. Its too bad , but what happens alot of the time is the woman seeks the nice/respectful qualities in her permanent relationship , but seeks the attention of a "bad boy" that treats her like a dirty slut and fucks her with a raw intensity that she wont allow to happen with her husband or long term boyfriend. I think those barriers come down when we , as men, can convince our women that we can be both of those (and for them to let us be both)....."respectful and loving and kind" outside the bedroom, and fuck them like an animal and treat them like the sexual "monster" (slut) i think most of them want to be, inside the bedroom.

i'm sure i'll get blasted for this post..lol

But for the record, i also believe in making sweet passionate love. a good relationship has it all...love, respect, communication, humor, romance and raw fucking sex..

but maybe i think too much.

 

I'm a guy bro

 

Allow me to congratulate you for your long analytic topic ,, meanwhile, i totally agree with you in all what u have mentioned above,, for me and my last GF, we was really in love and in the same time we was like animals in the house,, we was making all subkinds of sex, dominating, cosadism, co masochism, ,, etc and by reversing the roles each time dependings on the mood of the both of us ,, it was veryy good relationship and the proof is that it lasted 5 years ;;; thx duude

 

I am not quite sure...but I do know if a guy asked to have causual sex with me and I was not up for it I would simply decline. I would not be offended unless they get all butthurt and manipulative and wont take no for an answer.

 

A big hang up for some men (well I speak for myself but reckon it's universal) is asking someone you know if they want to have sex.. we worry it will destroy the friendship or good relations.. and of course it does change the nature of a relationship if you do sleep together..

I once asked quite a good "girl friend" of mine if she wanted to come home with me after an evening out and she declined politely but in a way which means we are still good mates - even better perhaps.. Now of course she knows that I fancy her and would like to sleep with her but she's still very pally with me.. she's actually married but in a difficult period so I quite respect her rejection!

I hold my hand up and admit I knew that things were not going that well for her in her marriage and so was being a teeny weeny bit "manipulative" perhaps.. or just tempting her with an offer of a good time...

I adore this girl (woman!) and we talk about so many things.. she may never be available but if she were I would look after her and her 3 kids..

Should I say that last part to her though?? Don't know..

 

You shouldn't haVe to ask unless ur paying for it

 

I think you need to get in quick before she has a chance to say no. So, when she says, "Do you want fries with that?", lay it on her. She can always say no if she isn't interested.

 

i think its all about the confidence in yourself and how you come across to a woman

 

To be honest, it's always been a case of the woman approaching me for casual sex. The nearest I came to 'asking' for it was when one online g/f came to stay for the weekend.

On her arrival, she went to use the bathroom, and when she came out we were cuddling outside the door, at which point I couldn't help but get an erection, which she had no difficulty in feeling pressing against her. She then said that we should make ourselves more comfortable, led me into the bedroom & began to strip, instructing me to do likewise. After which, everything just followed the natural course of things.

After all, in this day & age, why shouldn't the women be just as liberated to make the first move? I find it extremely sexist that when a man gets to score with multiple partners he's considered a stud, but when a woman does the same thing she's considered a slag. That's just plain wrong! Sex is enjoyed equally by both genders and we're both supposed to have equal rights, so why not?

Come on girls - us guys are ready, willing & able. Don't be shy!

 

Usually when a guy wants to fuck me he just starts like kissin on me and I guess rubbing himself on me and if I reciprocate then he knows it's on but if I don't that means try again

 

Wrong, you want to land the hot ones, pretty much do the exact opposite of what the chics do. Dont do that stupid hard to get routine, with the hot ones you only have a window of about 30 seconds.

Once your in a less public setting, just punch them in the face, you want to get them angry the right way. Its no fun if you are in control, whats sexier some puppy dog thats going to ask for your okay every time he wants to do something or hair pulling angry jackhammer.

Seriously, a nice little left hook, youd be surprised how well that works

 

As for the actual topic at hand, you guys have to be truly honest with yourself first. How do you ask without making an arse of yourself, they all think you are asses anyway.They have to do that all men are pigs act, better than admitting they dont have control.

When it comes to the ones that are nymphos, they'll have more than one guy on the go and most of you will get pissy and jealous and controlling that and with that experience will be able to tell instantly if you are a premo or not. So why doesnt she want to go home with some cheap ass whiney little bitch for a whole 30 seconds or loving, jeez its quite the puzzle.

As for the rest of them, planning the wedding day from the get go, or I sooo want to have a bayyyybeee....blerk. Or more interested in your job, car, bank account than you, well that whould tell you everything about whats to come

How do you ask a girl for sex? Cash, cheque or credit. Out in the real world, even if she is carefree and a sure thing, by the time you add up dinner, taxis, clubs and drinks ends up costing you more than 3/4 hr at your local establishment and take a lot less time so you can get back to video games quicker.

And before you think I being a dick, its still easier in that way for you guys tyan anyone else. Sure there are male prostitutes, but just twinks catering for bored married guys. There arent any brothels full of guys that look like firefighters.

So straight and male and you want the cream of the crop, 300 bucks an hour in the end. Female or gay and you want the creme of the crop, you have to fight tooth and nail for it

 

you don't ask a woman for sex, you tell her that she will be having sex with you.