Older men/Younger women relationships

Discussion in 'True Love' started by BottleFED, Jan 4, 2011.

  1. storkfmny

    storkfmny Member

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    I dig young petite women and I also have a thing for older women. I did my friends mother one night (all night) and it was some of the most intense sex I've ever had. she was like 50ish and hot as hell and I was 27. I'm 52 now and still feel the same way although leaning toward younger now.
     
  2. daniidean

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    I am 21 and I naturally go for older guys, my friends think i'm nuts but there is something about feeling protected.

    Still waiting though for the one
     
  3. 12barblues

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    no interest in younger women. At least not physically. and since i'm in a relationship , i won't be experiencing any emotionally either...
    I have a friend that's constantly talking about young women and i just dont get it. To me the marks that lifes experiences leave on a woman are what i'm attracted to. All the curves of a mature womans body...the tiny wrinkles that form around her eyes when she smiles or squints into the sun come to mind... i'm not attracted to someone that still looks like a kid...you know? But thats just me....
     
  4. Random_Zephyr

    Random_Zephyr Lifer

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    My guy is 9 years my senior. I would never date a guy under 30 (I'm 22). Male 30-something's are immature enough compared to females of the same age (i know this isn't alway the case, but in my experience that's how it seems to go). I think my age cut-off would be 42, so, no more than 20 years my senior. I LOVE older men, as long as they look nothing like my father. I don't understand the daddy issue thing. Gross. I just love a man who has his shit together and is prepared to commit. It's so sexy.

    I think it's possible to have a meaningful relationship with a younger woman. I know it is! You just need to find one mature enough.
     
  5. Random_Zephyr

    Random_Zephyr Lifer

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    Also, my boyfriend's father is 10 years older than his mom. They are 71 and 61 respectfully, and one of the most loving and wonderful couples I know!
     
  6. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    you should date a security guard.

    what if you found a guy your age who has his shit together and is ready to commit?

    what a creep, i'm only 6 years older than my mom.
     
  7. RiffRaff

    RiffRaff Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Don't do it!

    It's sweet having a hot, hard body next to you every night but when you get old and can't perform, out the door they go.

    Believe me, I know. My wife is 12 years younger than me. I'm now disabled and she's trying to take 1/2 of my money and split after 30 years of marriage.
     
  8. nattilee

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    My friend's father started dating a girl who was the same age almost as his son. But then again, he had had my friend young so we're looking at a 20 year age difference about. Anyway, they now have a daughter together and have been going strong for probably 7 years.
     
  9. iriegnome

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    I am on my second marriage. First one we were about the same age, but I was committed to the marriage and she was not. It only lasted 18 years. My new wife is 14 years younger than myself. We get along great. The age difference is not of any issue for either of us. Sometimes it is a bother since I was born in the 60's and she was born in the very late 70's! All that is just superficial though. We talk a lot. Every day. Still after being together for 5 years married for 3, we talk all the time. We travel and keep things deeply planted in our family life and home life. I think it is a variable that can never really be determined, but one that is only applicable to one person at a time. Can't judge everyone by the same things you know
     
  10. May_Queen Brighid

    May_Queen Brighid Member

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    I've dated men of all ages from their 20's to even 60's. The older guys are much better, especially if they still enjoy going out and having a good time, not club hopping or anything like that though. I also do not think I want to have children so with an older man he probably already has children and would be ok with not having any more with me.
     
  11. Quiet Storm

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    I have never dated an older guy or a guy my age even, they have always
    been younger -- not by my choice, it just happens that way.
    I always thought that an older guy would have less interest in sex.
     
  12. _Bob_

    _Bob_ Una Tana Bibi

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    Haha-no, I don't think that;s the case...my wife's a lot younger than me, and I've got a lot more interest in sex than she does
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    an old guy might know he only has a couple years of boners left.
     
  14. Quiet Storm

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    she's a lucky lady ._.


    lol :smilielol5:
     
  15. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    well I've just turned 60 and my sex drive is probably greater than it ever was - I'm looking for it several times a week if possible.

    My wife is 12 years younger and she doesn't want as uch sex as I do, so we have an open relationship and as I am bisexual I hook up with guys and gals, always playing safe though.

    Simon :sunny:
     
  16. mikek1005

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    For me... I cannot relate to people my age. Ive always had young people around me and have more fun with them. What matters to me , and whats important, dosent jive with people around my age. I want more kids, so need someone that will be there for them as they reach middle age. Dont think ill make it that long though!!!
     
  17. Rocky and Trish

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    I am married to a woman 30 years younger than me. We have been together 12 years and married for 9. I have never loved or been loved like this. We always laugh at the comments made on the Jerry Springer or Maury shows when they have couples with age differences on the show.
     
  18. chameleon31

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    I prefer a few yrs older - more than that and it starts to enter "Daddy" territory. (My parents are rather young). While I certainly don't wish to place any judgement on older/younger/same, who says there are RULES? To each their own - it either works or it doesn't dependent on individual wants and needs. I do think the focus ought to be on the PERSON, not the age.

    I did date a younger guy (28) for awhile - just didn't work out. Immature, selfish, and moody aren't much fun, at any age. For kicks, I talked/met several younger guys on POF... um, yah, no thank you. Just. not. for. me.

    I love an "old-fashioned/old-school" guy... they know how to treat a lady...brings me to my knees. ;)
     
  19. Quiet Storm

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    That is so great!!
    Too bad about your wife.
    As for me, my hormones are in full speed ahead -- and I am toying with
    the thought of finding a sex buddy - I get fearful and paranoid about
    all the things that could happen. I have only had sex within a relationship.
     
  20. dhflixo

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    Thanks for sharing. Expecting more in future.
     

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