What sexual things should I do for my dominant partner and are dominant men at all in

My boyfriend is really into dom/sub sex, and I am the submissive one. I am not too into dom/sub sex, but I really enjoy rough sex. What can I do as the submissive one to keep him sexually interested?

Also, he as asked me if there is anything I would be interested in trying, but I am perfectly fine with what we have because, as I said, I like rough sex, but I am not interested in the spanking, slapping, etc, so I don't want anything more. Right now we have a "vanilla" dom/sub" relationship, what can I do to kick it up a notch?

Also, is a man who likes dominant sex at all interested in regular sex? we have only had rough/dom/sub sex and I haven't complained because I want him to be pleased too. But do dominant men at all enjoy regular sex?

 

my girl and i also practice "rough sex" she loves it when i get very aggressive....but i'm more like you, in that i cant bring myself to actually inflict real pain.( or in your case receive it) ...luckily we have fantastic communication and simply discussed it in detail....turns out she was more into "being controlled" than being spanked or pain...so maybe start there? try being restrained and controlled? ( my girl wants me to build a sexual "stockade" for her..) just remember to have a "safe" word that means stop.

also, putting up a bit of a fight against him may kick things up a notch. (not being completely submissive). one time i had her hands pinned down and she got one free and hit me in the face!! and wow did the intensity go up after that! lol. good times lol

 

You sound young. If he really is into the seen then u should do things like eat his ass taste yourself crawl like a dog lick his arm pit, toes, be his little slave girl.

 

I`m fairly dominant, and I do a lot of slapping (face and ass) but taking care to not actually hurt my partner. Biting, and squeezing also comes naturally.

But, to answer the question, I can shift gears and have mushy sex, for sure. Though, usually when I am close to cumming I get a little rougher.

I don`t know if you enjoy talking dirty, too. I have had one experience in which I talked so dirty I was not myself. Recently, I had this chick talk so dirty to me (the dirtiest, loudest shit I`ve ever heard in my life) that I came in half my usual time.

Which would be 2 minutes... :biggrin:

 

Errr ..... Dom/sub and the sub is a girl, and I assume the smaller one as thats usually the case, all sounds a bit too its the 1950s and your burnt the roast

Big difference between rough: getting ravished, I must have you now, and him needed to inflict pain on you to get excited.

Unless he does actually want it the other way round, give that a go at least once. Wear 4" heels and jab him in sensitive places. Get one of his belts, if he does something you dont like slap him across the face "Dont fuckin touch me like that, what kind of a man are you?" blah blah blah

Either he'll lap that up and you'll get worshipped or slap you back, if its the latter then Run Forest Run, as its only going to get worse and 10 years down the track you will start getting slapped for burning the roast or not having dinner ready on time

 

Is he telling you what to do? Maybe some light humiliation. Is he telling you when you can orgasm? Making you serve him in some way? Perhaps calling you his dirty little slut? IF not, maybe you're just having rough sex.

 

my partner is very dominant but he always makes sure that i like what he does. he calls me his little slag and grabs my hair HARD pulling it and getting rougher sex wise, he also likes to slap arse and thighs sometimes it really hurts but during sex i like it weird thing is, is that if im not in mood for that (we have 3 kids im tired alot lol) he is very into passionate sex too so i get best of both worlds

 

well rough . once had a woman she like being hit with pants belt . really hard . i made her ass from white white to black black . she really liked it . after she wanted anal sex . woman are weird