Losing interest in porn & jerking off

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by franx144, Dec 3, 2011.

  1. franx144

    franx144 Banned

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    I have jerked off to pornography for more than 35 years and have a very big collection of movie clips & pics on my laptop and used to spend small fortunes on magazines, videos and trips to the arcades.

    But recently I have begun to lose interest in it to the point where seeing a picture of a naked women bores me and videos of women sucking dick or getting fucked kind of annoy me.

    I enjoy sex with my wife more than ever which usually amounts to fucking once a week and usually one blowjob per week also but I don't jerk off very often, maybe a few times a month.

    Part of it is age, I turn 49 in a week but the images just don't arouse me very much anymore.

    Does this happen to any other middle aged men?
     
  2. Fairlight

    Fairlight Banned

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    I find porn totally boring and can't look at the stuff.It hurts my eyes and I avoid it.Is that uncool? I mean it's not compulsory - right? I have no problem with other people using porn if they can handle it,and none of the actors are being exploited or underage.Personally my limited experience with it in the past always made me feel crap.I'd much rather be with a real woman and have actual sex.I also believe society is becoming increasingly pornographised and wonder what this is doing to the pscho-sexual development of young people.I often find that that which is not revealed is often more exciting than that which is.As I said if you enjoy porn and it's not hurting anyone,no problem,but please be honest if you have ambivalence about it or if it brings you down.
     
  3. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    too much of the same thing will always become uninteresting.
     
  4. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    I`m not quite there yet.

    If anything, bar chicks bore (scare! :eek:) me. Whores? No, they excite me. I shouldn`t be so prejudiced. :biggrin:
     
  5. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    I wouldnt worry, just means you are getting bored with girls ;)
     
  6. golfer01

    golfer01 Member

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    I'm under 30 and I'm bored with the porn. Take a break!
     
  7. franx144

    franx144 Banned

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    Sunday I deleted 30GB of Porn off of my laptop and deleted all the links to porn sites from my bookmarks.

    I just have zero interest in looking at naked bodies or whacking off.

    I really only have interest in alcohol.
     
  8. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Ya couldn't have just given the 30 GB away to someone who might be interested?
     
  9. franx144

    franx144 Banned

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    It's all available on the internet
     
  10. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    t.v porn is the answer my friend.
     
  11. deleted

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    yes, transvestite porn is where its at.. :gorgeous:
     
  12. PEACEFUL LIBRA

    PEACEFUL LIBRA DAMN RIGHT I'M A WEIRDO

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    try and spice things up maybe that will help
     
  13. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah, i don't usually want to beat off when i'm drunk either.
     
  14. kokujin

    kokujin Senior Member

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    At 49, you should not be surprised. In my 20s I only look at porn once or twice a week.
     
  15. caramelkween

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    you need to get out more... have fun
     

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